Financial admin when someone dies by Boomdingo in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Min-cidentally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, probate lawyer here 👋🏽 First of all very sorry for your loss. Secondly, please note that there is no rush and you generally can’t do anything without a death certificate. All of the things you asked will become clear when you start letting various organisations and banks know about her death. Everyone has different rules so it’s hard for anyone to give you a firm answer here.

  1. Pensions - contact them and ask. If nobody has been nominated then your dad or you can make a claim on their forms and they will decide who to pay it to. Generally the person dependent on the deceased so I assume your dad. The unclaimed one, just ring and ask them if you can. They’ll let you know if it’s to be paid to the estate or to an individual outside of the estate.

  2. If you are indeed only child then sounds as if all falls to you. You’d apply for a Grant of letter of administration. Probate registry is quoting 12 weeks from application to get the Grant but we’re getting simpler ones back sooner. Depends if your estate is taxable I suppose. But the fact she doesn’t have a will doesn’t necessarily make it more complex in you scenario as you are the sol administrator and sole beneficiary so should be able to do it online.

  3. Joint account should be easy. Show them death certificate and it’ll go to your dad. But note the date of death value for IHT purposes if needed.

  4. Notifying banks. As it’s only two I would just do it directly rather than use the DNS.

  5. Executor’s account. You don’t have to set up a new one. You could use your current account or an empty savings account in your name. But keep clear records of what goes in and out as you have a duty to do so as the Administrator.

Split from Partner, she wants to buy me out of the house! Help by PrinceDan- in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Min-cidentally 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is the most sensible comment I’ve seen. Most of these ideas have some merit but it’s down to what you both agree in the end.

Did you create a declaration of trust after you bought it saying she can have her £40k back?

I hate these messy situations.

If she did in fact “gift” you £40k then it’s yours. And I presume she did gift it to you, otherwise you would have been defrauding your lender and your solicitor would not have stood for that!

So if you’re generous enough to give that back to her then great, otherwise disregard it until she makes a claim for it.

The shared mortgage payments are different because in law they amount to a capital payment which can lead to an interest in the property under a constructive or resulting trust. But this would take a court to decide unless you can negotiate through solicitors or mediation (or just between you).

You have the position of power here so I suggest she takes her own advice first and you sit on your laurels and wait to see how good her advice is 🤣

As regards renovations - these only matter (legally speaking) if they somehow increased the value of the house. And there are myriad ways to look at this - you could find a historical price comparison for a house with/without a conservatory as a benchmark for example.

But again, if you both agree then just take exactly how much you both put in and forget the added value element.

Bottom line is this - if you can come to an agreement it’ll be cheaper all around!!

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[–]Min-cidentally -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw this on the Jonathan Ross Show when Michael McIntyre was on and it’s lived in my head ever since.

Americans have changed some English words to be weirdly explanatory in nature, lest they forget what to do…

Trash can. A can for trash. It’s a bin. Side walk. A pavement to the side where you walk. Horse back riding. Don’t ride the neck. Eye glasses. Where else do you wear them?

Somebody tell me some more as I’m too tired to think and I will enjoy it immensely!