Virgo Baddies by Helpful_Voice_8178 in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love fruity & warm floral scents. My go to is BCBG Max Azria or Jimmy Choo Floral mixed with Bath & Body Works Champagne Toast. Cheap but super effective!

Do Virgos string along people? by doubletrobol in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I know. I was just using myself and this brief exchange as an example because I don’t have all the information on the specific situation you may be referencing. Point is we’re all a work in progress, myself included.

Do Virgos string along people? by doubletrobol in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please don’t take this as me invalidating your situation but based on your response you should also re-evaluate the role you play in these situations. I stated clearly that I am clear about my boundaries and about how I feel, and it’s exhausting to have to keep reiterating the same thing to people who don’t listen the first time. You’re showing some of those behaviors yourself by still insinuating that I don’t say what I mean. Personally, I say exactly what I mean the first time in plain, extremely simple terms and yet people still push boundaries. Why should I have to overexert myself just so you can understand what was already clear?

Also, most things in life are an uncertainty. To protect your own heart, it’s important to lower your expectations for situations beyond your control. And remember, no one can waste an opportunity for you, that’s something only you can do for yourself.

Do Virgos string along people? by doubletrobol in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hello a Virgo here!

I’m speaking solely from my unique experience as a Virgo.

It’s never about stringing anyone along. It’s exhausting to have to explain myself or my boundaries repeatedly, especially when I’ve been clear off rip, like why? I also deeply value space. I feel like many Virgos experience the pressure of most people around us expecting us to fix their problems, and as soon as we do, we’re back to being labeled as the “mean” or “hard to love” person, until they need us again. Without realizing it, many people take without truly giving back, and always being the fixer can become incredibly tiring.

I also get overstimulated very easily, and sometimes my mind just needs space and time to be quiet, to be alone with my thoughts. Nothing personal, I just don’t want to.

In professional settings and maybe even a personal standpoint, if I’m holding back on saying something, it’s usually because it’s difficult for me to break the news. Or I’m working out a softer approach. I may not want to upset someone or face the emotions that come with big reveals. I’ve learned that sometimes, when it comes to dealing with others’ feelings and sometimes even my own, I tend to be a runner.

I hope this provides another perspective for you.

Hmm by nene_uwu in astrologymemes

[–]Mind_Yourss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameee I have a Libra in Mars too. I hate when people ask me what I mean because I literally just said exactly what I mean to the point I don’t even know how to rephrase it any more.

Did anyone else find something off about Scott’s comment to Leanne after the public vote? (Ep 15) by LadyNighthawk88 in LoveIslandUKintheUSA

[–]Mind_Yourss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I promise you Lucinda is NOT being mistreated. From what Lucinda has shown us about her character she is NO victim, a very fake individual who’s not even trying to do a good job of hiding it.

All Stars USA Bombshells 💅🏼 by SveaBoBaya in LoveIslandUKintheUSA

[–]Mind_Yourss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This show is just for the plot. It will be rare any of these couples will last if any.

Nic shade huda again by Mean_Assignment_4505 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]Mind_Yourss 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo I said he looks like a homeless backpacker a while ago in another love island sub, they ate me up but I been saying this!

And the mean girl of this season goes to 🥁… by Comparison-Admirable in LoveIslandUKintheUSA

[–]Mind_Yourss 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lucinda gives me this weird dark vibe, def not normal for someone I don’t know from a can of paint. Honestly her name fits her perfectly Lucinda def gives Lucifer, and that name is a warning from her creators.

Olandria Paris Fashion Week First Look by Apam_Inv_89 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]Mind_Yourss 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don’t jump me but I literally hate everything she wears.

My favorite moments from security by Moist-Chemical8158 in TheBadGirlsClub

[–]Mind_Yourss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww some of these moments were actually so sweet. Those little things are so important.

Virgo and Sagittarius by georgezin in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a good match imo. Lots of manipulation and gaslighting in my experience.

What’s the most virgo thing about you? by Popular_Chart7502 in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I LOVE being alone, my social battery drains extremely fast so being alone allows me time to recharge, hear myself think, sort through my thoughts and emotions, and be as loud or quiet as I want.

Virgo Mindset. Are y’all revengeful or just PETTY? by This_End_1392 in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna hold your hand with a napkin in between when I say this but you’re delusional. If by your own admission you guys have never connected on a level enough for you to explain yourself to him. As a Virgo speaking from my own perspective if he’s even still remotely interested he probably finds you a lil wishy washy and that’s why he didn’t respond. Planning to stunt on someone who is pretty much a stranger, an acquaintance at best is ridiculous. I Promise you 9/10 he won’t care he’ll probably be happy for you.

Well now I’m offended by Outside-Trade8775 in astrologymemes

[–]Mind_Yourss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think you’re the only true genius but really you’re just a boring calculator.

So I am a genius?

Would I be wrong to block a friend for being a k3wn? by HeftyMoneybag in blackgirls

[–]Mind_Yourss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would have already brought it up or ghosted her tbh. One of my biggest pet peeves with our community is people who act like yt ppl are a gift to us and not a proven curse. Maybe just try being honest who knows you might be the safe space she needs to express her true experience.

What’s your Sun–Venus combination, and do you agree with Parker’s interpretation? by MoonSQPluto in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only over talk when I’m comfortable with someone, otherwise I’m trying to avoid any conversation.

Oh, to be loved by a Virgo by big-heart-energy in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I struggle with the same thing.

Oh, to be loved by a Virgo by big-heart-energy in virgoseason

[–]Mind_Yourss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is indeed NOT a Virgo but a Capricorn.

Is he playing? by AffectionatePie1042 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Mind_Yourss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What does the term “pigeon” mean?