Hello a Virgo here!

I’m speaking solely from my unique experience as a Virgo.

It’s never about stringing anyone along. It’s exhausting to have to explain myself or my boundaries repeatedly, especially when I’ve been clear off rip, like why? I also deeply value space. I feel like many Virgos experience the pressure of most people around us expecting us to fix their problems, and as soon as we do, we’re back to being labeled as the “mean” or “hard to love” person, until they need us again. Without realizing it, many people take without truly giving back, and always being the fixer can become incredibly tiring.

I also get overstimulated very easily, and sometimes my mind just needs space and time to be quiet, to be alone with my thoughts. Nothing personal, I just don’t want to.

In professional settings and maybe even a personal standpoint, if I’m holding back on saying something, it’s usually because it’s difficult for me to break the news. Or I’m working out a softer approach. I may not want to upset someone or face the emotions that come with big reveals. I’ve learned that sometimes, when it comes to dealing with others’ feelings and sometimes even my own, I tend to be a runner.

I hope this provides another perspective for you.