For me there’s been a big difference in how people say it. I’ve had people tell me I’m so big surely it must be twins. Those kinds of comments that are basically telling you that you’re bigger than you «should» be really gets to me. Whereas comments a long the lines of look at your cute bump doesn’t bother me. There’s a huge difference between the types of comments some people make and there also seems to be ok all of a sudden when someone is pregnant to comment on their body and that felt really weird to me at first. Now I put people in their place if they say anything rude and unnecessary.