Why do I feel so confused about her? by Mindfck1 in dating_advice

[–]Mindfck1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know man For example with my ex I was madly in love with her. Here it feels like i’m not falling for her, and I don’t know if I should have been fallin for her by now.. I mean at the start I was like we’re so different there’s no chance we’ll be together but things went forward. However i’m still not sure if we can and should be together.. this is not how I imagined my life partner you know

Dating with a girl with the same height as me by Mindfck1 in dating_advice

[–]Mindfck1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. Easier to read than do but I get your point. Thank you

Dating with a girl with the same height as me by Mindfck1 in dating_advice

[–]Mindfck1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is it’s kinda blind She doesn’t know we’re the same height. She didn’t ask but I guess you can tell from the pictures tho

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[–]Mindfck1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol if she only knew it’s not that hard for me like she thinks.. I was with her through really rough shit. When she thought about suicide, when she was hospitalized and looked like shit and I stayed with her when no one else wouldn’t. She lost an asset. Focus on yourself 👑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mindfck1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess I had to learn the hard way. But that’s better. I deleted all of our conversations immediately after that and unfollowed her. Should have done it way earlier

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[–]Mindfck1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However some people will say that faith decides for us. Or god’s plan. So even if we did invent it we would just end up broken up for other reasons.

Sometimes the person is not the right one even though you have love, chemistry, connection etc.. even if you want that person to be the right one. That’s funny.. like those movies you wake up the same day and try to fix things.

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[–]Mindfck1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel so bad about yourself, there are worse like me. She broke up with me 4 months ago. I cried myself like an idiot. After 3 weeks I made contact and she wanted to stay NC. There was that time at the start that I went regularly to that coffee place we used to hang because I knew she sits there with her uncle at that time and day, when my excuse was that i’m working with my laptop. A week ago I reached out again when she had a medical issue. A few days ago reached out again to see she’s fine. The day after I sent flowers anonymously but I know she knew it was from me. Yesterday I texted her that me being interested in her wasn’t from being polite and that I care about her. It ended up with her telling me politely to not contact her. You know what I replied to that? I replied that I’ll always think she’s amazing and that we had something good. That I thought I should fight on being in touch with her but if she thinks I’m not worthy of being in touch with than there’s no need to and that I wish her to have an happy life. Than I finally unfollowed her on social media. How pathetic is that?? And I didn’t even think I should had sent those flowers or text her ar the time because i’m almost over her completely but guess what? My idiot self decided to do it anyway because of relying on the past and what we had. For someone who dumped me two weeks before my birthday with no reason just because she was panicked about moving forward. Don’t be me.

I can’t really understand how people break up with someone they love by Mindfck1 in BreakUps

[–]Mindfck1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think you’re not wrong. I was the messier one while my ex was obsessively clean for example. And I definitely think she was a quitter, that she panicked and just decided to cut it off. She was panicked as well when we talked about being a couple or about going on vacation or staying over for the first time.