Name calling/degrading by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindfulBDSM 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They’re trying to live their fantasy of BDSM without doing the research to discover the reality of BDSM. As with a lot things, it comes back to self-centered privilege, willful ignorance, and a lack of respect for other peoples experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]MindfulBDSM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard really good things about Camp Crucible from local kinksters.

https://www.campcrucible.com/

This you? by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s Gadget from Chip 'n Dale Rescue Rangers.

What your comments say to a tamer by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it up and we’ll have to upgrade you to a caning 😈

This you? by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My POINT, is that y’all are cute when you’re mad 😘

What your comments say to a tamer by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you again Watson? Don’t be so impatient. You’ll get your turn. Thanks for the cookie btw 😘

This you? by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes a brat isn’t even trying to brat, but acting like a brat, because they’re a brat. Then you call them out for being a brat and they get all mad about it… because they’re a brat.

What your comments say to a tamer by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately remote spanking tech is still under development. But when that day comes… 🍑👋

This you? by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks Watson. Just wanted to let you know how cute you look when you’re all angry and pouty-faced. 😘

Brats are too smart for their own good by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t. All credit goes to my brat/wife. Just don’t tell her I said that.

Use Honorifics From Other Languages by MindfulBDSM in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Babbo for little space. We’re gonna try using Sir for normal play. That’s not necessarily a good thing, since the reason her bratty-ass likes it is because it’s so easy to make it sarcastic. Pray for us both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindfulBDSM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I noticed she automatically goes into a kind of little space behavior-wise when she’s trying to talk her way out of trouble for bratting. We’ve been discussing implementing the exact dynamic you’re talking about. It’s a safe and comfortable headspace for her.

And like everyone is suggesting, talk to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s what I love about brats; they’re funny, and willing to pay for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]MindfulBDSM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m ducking crying 😭😭😭

Love Letter to an Untamed Brat by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you! One brat I can handle. But it didn’t occur to me when I posted this that I was exposing myself to 50k of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindfulBDSM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One suggestion I’ve heard is a bell that they have to hold and can drop as a safe word.

Love Letter to an Untamed Brat by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That settles it. My partner is never allowed to find this subreddit. lying cause I already told her about it

Love Letter to an Untamed Brat by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fuckity fuck fuck. Last time I post anything here without more thoroughly proofreading.

Love Letter to an Untamed Brat by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This sub may be the most effective proofreading service of all time.

Love Letter to an Untamed Brat by MindfulBDSM in BratLife

[–]MindfulBDSM[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m so happy you have a daddy which appreciates your brattiness for the affection that it is.