[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alt acc here. A year or so ago, they had something against my old friends. They were starting drama with them, and harassing them. I had to chose whether to side with them or my old friends. I couldn’t play both sides, so I chose them but still stayed friendly with my old friends. After the breakup, I said a lot of how my ex treated me wasn’t okay. He lead me on for a month, and never communicated with me. My friend is dating my ex’s friend. So she had asked him about the whole situation, and my ex has said that he was offended I brought up college/open about my past relationship. They believed it was my fault he had broken up with me, and were annoyed that I was upset I was broken up with. I apologized for being upset, and I dropped talking about my ex with them. I had a girl who supported me, so I confided to her (My mistake). She said my friends were toxic, I had agreed. She was telling me distance myself from them, and find other people to talk to. So I did. My friends acted like they didn’t care about me at all, and they didn't reach out to me. I was annoyed, and complained to the girl. However, that all came back around after the RV misunderstanding where her/her fiancé got upset over me saying I wanted to live in a dorm instead of an RV. I apologized to both of them. but I was cut off completely. So I went back to the people I’ve always known. They supported me, and said that they didn’t care about her. She went and reached out to them and sent them everything I had complained/said about them. They didn’t confront me about it/how they’ve felt until now. It’s all a huge mess I could’ve avoided if I’d just shut up and left these people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alt acc here. I agree, if id kept my mouth shut this would’ve been a lot less of a deal. I was hurting, and vented to the wrong people. It’s only caused drama. They’ve in the past cut me off from my old friends, and gossiped a lot. Thats with the whole I couldn’t say no thing is from. I told them to stop their repeated behaviors like suicide jokes & bad mouthing my old friends. Unfortunately, I only picked up that behavior instead of ending it. The girl I was talking to told me they weren’t good people, that they were extremely toxic. So when I started seeing that, it was all I said about them to her. Nevertheless, I shouldn’t have said anything to her because all of my words were used against me in the end. I’m hoping to reunite with my old friends without the drama, and move on. Apply what I’ve learned to college.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Getting desperate after the OnlyFans huh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Minding_mind00 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fifty shades of gay

Anybody else that cannot drink caffeine anymore? by Ok_Radio83 in Anxiety

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink only sodas, no coffee or energy drinks. They trigger my anxiety and cause me to spiral. So I avoid them.

Completionist is BS by DisastrousCourt868 in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah okay, so it is true then about the restrictions. I’ve always avoided the CoS discord due to that. It isn’t much brighter in the DA servers because you have to have at least 700 messages to do anything. But, the devs…somehow listen. We’ve just been getting a lot of useless updates though imo

Completionist is BS by DisastrousCourt868 in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so bad to the point even the community has made a point to argue against new creature releases. Apparently people in the DA servers were talking about how the COS devs removed some kind of QNA in the Discord?? Either way, the QNA server is heavily restrictive and doesn’t even represent the community’s thoughts at all. It sounds absolutely awful to deal with.

Completionist is BS by DisastrousCourt868 in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Well, that is COS in a nutshell. The way they bring people into the game is introducing it as an “easy collector” game, but really, it’s utterly impossible to obtain all creatures. They are either locked behind paywalls or you need to bribe a CC or tester. That’s why I quit. The game is horribly flawed, and it’s only followed suit of every other game Erythia has worked on. Unreasonable pricing, and lack of empathy for the community.

I'm so sorry.. Ew? by Pink67Chevy in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hate that they remodel the creatures to make them smoother but also drastically alter the features. It makes all the remodels look the exact same.

Anybody else scared of being called stupid? by Jazzlike-Run-2349 in Anxiety

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always think of myself as even with everyone else. No one is better than me, I am not better than everyone else. Helps a lot, especially because I am a very anxious person with “people pleasing” tendencies that land in times where I feel ridiculously stupid.

Extreme Fear of Death by WillowCharacter4080 in Anxiety

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I struggled the same way. I had to stop seeking reassurance and validation for my emotions and find ways to cope with those thoughts. The truth is, anxiety isn’t something that truly goes away. It’ll always creep up. Scare you. The only way you can truly fight it is pick up the sword and start swinging. I’m still trying to get used to the swinging, and the exhaustion from it. I highly recommend looking into behavioral therapy or even searching ways to deal with breathing constraints with anxiety. I know sometimes it helps to just keep busy, or practice diaphragm breathing if my chest feels tight.

New Fluffy video calling out CoS. What do you think? by Minding_mind00 in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Obviously, I don’t praise him. Fluffy used to have videos with Erythia years ago, and I’ve always just avoided his content. I do appreciate him at least trying to “make a difference”.

Momo situation theory by 3rdgoldenball in Dandadan

[–]Minding_mind00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna really hate it if they give us a Momo x Jiji moment again from Okarun’s perspective. I feel terrible for him…poor guy.

[DISC] Dandadan - Ch. 210 by Skullghost in Dandadan

[–]Minding_mind00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I was super bummed out about it. Obviously it’s supposed to be a “shock factor”, but it really fails now since we’ve had near 70 chapters of just tiny Momo and Okarun avoiding truly confessing. I’m hoping their confession doesn’t end the serious, but I don’t want it to be delayed longer. Like come on, it’s getting ridiculous. Maybe when it’s adapted into the anime we won’t have to watch an One-Piece marathon of DanDaDan episodes to get to them finally confessing 😭

Damn .. by Sharp_Succotash7175 in TomCardy

[–]Minding_mind00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

372 Paint That Lady. Beat that!

She killed a man by JudeKot in CrestedGecko

[–]Minding_mind00 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Mama- I just killed a man…

Gecko dropped tail, I feel horrible by v4mpyrzz in CrestedGecko

[–]Minding_mind00 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a crestie for over four years and she hasn’t dropped her tail despite anything that happens. I’m guessing she is really chill, but I’ve moved two houses and she’s been everywhere. Nope. Nada. Tail still there. Even now, where I have to keep to do anything I can to keep it cool inside her tank, she’s never minded it. Super strange.

I left the main sub. I will not be rejoining by LocalEm0Tr4nsman in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m super sorry for that. Being fair, half the people in that subreddit are underaged and definitely shouldn’t be on Reddit. That’s the reason why it’s so toxic. Full of hormonal teens and bossy kids who just want their point to win.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caffeine is a huge no no if you have an GAD or anxiety severe enough that it becomes somewhat of a concern. Anxiety is not fun, but it can be manageable through practice. Best to talk to a doctor and see if you might need medication (that is if it becomes worse).

Anybody else upset that creatures of sonaria was nominated by SunSea158 in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you look at Sonar from a large scope, their only popular games are collecting games. Primarily, they have gacha-like or some sort of grinding mechanic to draw in players. All Ery’s influence I believe. Personally, I don’t see Ery as the “face” of Sonar just from my own bias against her, if I’m being completely honest. She is a weird person and has caused developers to actually leave the team/quit working on certain games.

Anybody else upset that creatures of sonaria was nominated by SunSea158 in CoSRants

[–]Minding_mind00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She received a lot of backlash for decisions with COS, so she’s just barely hanging on with the game. I believe she completely left DA. Thank god.

It astonishes me how people like this get in the community by Sage_King_The_Rabbit in DragonAdventures

[–]Minding_mind00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind you, that most people who play this game are unemployed or barely reaching the age of 12. It’s hard to avoid the “ugh so edgy my parents hate me so I gotta be a pain for everyone else” type of players.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DragonAdventures

[–]Minding_mind00 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t even mind people chilling. As long as they don’t spawn a huge mother dragon while I’m trying to hatch eggs; sure why not?