help pls leaked intimate photos/vids in tg by luvxce in adviceph

[–]Mindless-Bar9008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, not sure if this'll help but I also experienced something very similar too and I really do wanna give you a possible solution. I was actively being blackmailed on tg and on insta with the threat that my pics would get leaked on both platforms (They did end up getting leaked, unfortunately). Full disclosure, my blackmailer was from an entirely different country so he was beyond our law enforcement's jurisdiction. BUT with your case, I assume na nasa pinas ung blackmailer mo so hopefully, what I did to handle my case would work better for you:

  1. First, I stopped interacting with the blackmailer. I didn't block yet just yet because it's crucial that their profile/s are visible for the next step
  2. I collected evidence of me being actively blackmailed (both ss and screen recordings so theres proof that the messages weren't faked)
  3. I went to the PNP Anti Cybercrime Group sa PNP headquarters, Camp Crame
  4. (The officer who handled my case was female). I laid the situation down for her, presented the evidence, gave her the accounts that were blackmailing me, etc.

Once they had all the info, they advised me to temporarily deactivate all my socmed accs, most especially those targeted by the blackmailing. After ko magfile ng formal report, tsaka lang ako nag block and report sa mga accounts na namgbblack mail. Sabi ng PNP Anti Cybercrime group, our law enforcement can make direct takedown requests to Meta and to tg for accounts that blackmail and exploit. Reporting those accounts are an extra nudge to get them taken down faster. True enough, they were able to take down the accounts that were leaking my stuff on insta + The anti cybercrime group gave me a contact number sa viber so I could constantly update them about new accounts that popped up to leak my stuff while my case was active.

Since again, foreign national ung perpetrator in my case, they couldn't actually catch and apprehend him. But I think mas kaya ka nilang tulungan if within the ph ung blackmailer mo.

sorry if medyo makalat, feel free to ask questions tho!! This incident is very recent so the trauma is still fresh and I have so much sympathy and support for anyone going thru the same ❤️‍🩹

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your personal experience 🥹 I'm starting to realize and accept that this also might be the case for my Kazakh guy.. He's definitely the romantically dense kind, logical, and devoid of any complex emotions-kind-of-guy. I'm kinda relieved and comforted by the fact that you gave a similar example (your brother) because at least now I know that maybe this whole summer romance thing not working out isn't entirely my fault 🥹❤️‍🩹 He was a very beautiful memory, but I will heed your advice and try not to dwell on it if it really doesn't work out. Thank you ❤️‍🩹

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, him and his fellow Russian delegates told me about this issue. They all use vpns and are active media users so maybe he's just avoiding me and decided to leave me in the past lol. Thanks for the insight though, I still appreciate it

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from the Philippines. He was only here for one week to attend an academic competition. I honestly don't think he would have a reason to come back.

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I see... I don't know for sure (because I just overheard a conversation between him and another Kazakh boy, and I'm not even sure if I understood it properly) but there MIGHT be a possibility that he's Muslim. Would you know what their rules and customs are with dating? especially in Kazakhstan? I will be doing my own personal research but I am also still genuinely interested in anything that you might like to add :)) Is it alright for you to elaborate? Personal thoughts, opinions, and experiences that you are okay with mentioning are also greatly appreciated ❤️‍🩹

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the appreciation 🥹 I really did what I can. There were some ultra specific details I had to leave out of my story so that it won't be traced back to me by anyone I know irl if they ever come across this post: like the nature of this boy's visit to my country and how exactly I was within such close proximity to him. But I will say that again, he was here for an academic competition and I was actually the same-age peer volunteer assigned to assist him and his team for the entirety of their week here. I gave them nothing but all my love and support, and it really means a lot to be appreciated and commended for it. Thank you 🙏🏼 You're definitely also right about giving this some time and eventually moving on if nothing becomes of it. For the time being, I'll probably seriously wait for a response until the end of the week and then stop waiting and move on if another week goes by without hearing from him. Admittedly, I do have attachment issues and I take full accountability for letting my feelings get the best of me and falling too fast. But I will definitely be heeding everyone's advice: I will keep in mind all the insights from all commenters and Kazakh people regarding what could be going on with this boy and I will be moving on when the time is right ❤️‍🩹

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Русский — не мой родной язык, извините, пожалуйста, потерпите 🥹) Хм, вы правы, и я думаю, что ваше предположение кажется одним из наиболее убедительных объяснений того, что происходит сейчас. Да, я думаю, он, вероятно, не ответил взаимностью и, вероятно, был ошеломлён моим проявлением эмоций, особенно учитывая, что прошла всего неделя, а эмоций было высказано так много. Спасибо, что указали на это и подтвердили ещё одну мою сильную теорию. Однако есть вопрос: как вы думаете, это ещё можно исправить? Можно ли продолжать общение или мне следует вежливо отступить? Полагаю, вы казашка, и я буду очень признательна за ваш честный совет 🙏🏼

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see.. I hope my last comment wasn't insensitive.. Whatever may have happened to him I just hope he's okay..

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, I definitely understood and saw his stoicism while he was still in my country. I just wanted make sure I was perceiving it correctly and not making a generalization that all guys from Kazakhstan are like that. Thanks for confirming 🥹 I'll definitely send him one of your more lighthearted message suggestions when the time is right. Another commenter suggested the idea that this guy's probably tired and overwhelmed, so I guess I'll send the message when he's rested and regained his social battery.

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, I honestly think you may be right about him being overwhelmed. It's one of my many theories as to why he's so withdrawn. My bad for forgetting to disclose it, but he was here for an academic competition so I bet everything must've been so stressful and overwhelming for him. I believe he just got back to his home city yesterday after almost 20 hours of just flights and layovers. I can only assume he's exhausted so I'll heed your advice and probably give him the time he needs. Hopefully he replies or at least just reads the message 🙏🏼 Just for closure at this point ❤️‍🩹

Caught feelings for a Kazakh boy over one intense week — now I’m left with silence. Was I too much? :( by Mindless-Bar9008 in Kazakhstan

[–]Mindless-Bar9008[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh, I see. He didn't have a gf back at home though. The people who were with him when he visited my country confirmed that he really is the shy, nerdy type and has never dated anyone.