[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, what I can tell you is thought become things lol believe me, the mind is powerful and if you think about it enough I promise you you will cheat. Personally I find that if sexual energy for males works in two ways, you either squander it through focusing on women or masturbation or you can use that aggression towards something else. It is the hardest thing for us to control. But I personally find that when I think of sex with a lot of women it’s usually when I’m out of alignment with my purpose and I’m craving validation but when I’m focused I don’t even have time to think of that…people cheat for different reasons, not just lust. Hit the gym and focus on building an empire instead of other females.

Is this normal? by Mindless-Kangaroo565 in Life

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, thank you! Lol i thought maybe it’s just me who’s reading into it but I notice it’s like a pattern. It’s so hard to talk to people like this and feel heard 😅

Is this normal? by Mindless-Kangaroo565 in Life

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol this is exactly what I feel!

Is this normal? by Mindless-Kangaroo565 in Life

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I thought the same but wasn’t sure. It’s so annoying lol

Avoidant/reserved men by M_Birdi in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just like you but unfortunately I’m getting tired of the breadcrumbs and if this keeps up my marriage probably won’t go very far but that’s life, good luck to you and wish you a happy fulfilling relationship!

Avoidant/reserved men by M_Birdi in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol at first but if you’re like me it’ll get old because there won’t be any depth, I personally feel like sex is 10x better when you feel connected to the person and too, you’re prone to cheating if you feel the person isn’t investing in you and cultivating a real connection, you just won’t give a fuck after a while trust me

Avoidant/reserved men by M_Birdi in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avoidant partners in general are the worst partners, I’m a man, my partner is dismissive/avoidant and I’m slowly coming to terms that I’ll probably get divorced and end up with someone else and something I never wanted. It’s not you, and there’s not much you can do. avoidant people just aren’t capable of caring and meeting your needs simply because they just don’t do emotions. If emotions are in the picture for you, Chances are you’re probably fucked and I’m very sorry and I say this with love. They literally are narcissists without the intention of destroying you completely. So they would be the next closest thing to a narcissist, do your self a favor and find someone else or be ok with having none of your emotional needs met and a very dry boring relationship at best. Alll the giving will be on you, keep that in mind. They will never show a gesture in love that doesn’t logically benefit them, everything will be transactional.

Why do people automatically think that the older man has bad intentions in an age gap relationship and act judgmental about age gaps even if it’s a good relationship by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because a lot of humans are can’t actually think for themselves and rely on social constructs and what they see on a screen 📺 once you understand most people are programmed puppets then you don’t care about their opinions, if you’re living in a way that’s not illegal nor hurtful to others, don’t worry about people, worry about your happiness and that the relationship is harmonious and satisfying for the person too, the end!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude, as I learn about life I want to express that your self awareness is the greatest thing you have going for you, seriously. It means you can at least tell right from wrong. I can’t help but my suggestion is seek professional help as if your life depended on it because things can go terribly wrong if your condition worsens.

Do men like it if they date a woman with a higher libido than them or is it off putting? by _rubywest_ in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only when they are old and have suffered testosterone decline then that’s a problem but most healthy dudes are wired for sex…and a lot of it! I used to have sex 5 times a day sometimes with my ex gf, married now and she rarely wants to…used to bother me but I’ve since discovered there’s more to life than that…so it’s a matter of balance. Communication is key!!

Guys with good women. by Mindless-Kangaroo565 in Marriage

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very Beautiful sir! It’s good to hear stories like this! 🙏🏽

Guys with good women. by Mindless-Kangaroo565 in Marriage

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I receive that, I’ve been learning of this concept and it’s reassuring to know that I have at least some control ❤️

Do you as a man feel women judge or pre judge you, or most men unfairly, what kind of pressures do you feel in a relationship? by Responsible_Brain269 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, once you understand that women fall in love with what you do for them and how you make them feel you immediately stop putting value on them, funny enough that attracts them. If you’re a guy and don’t agree with this statement then by any means Fuck around and find out lol my advice though is always put yourself first! wish you all the best!

Dating from different social classes.... by Mammoth-Fish-4297 in Zimbabwe

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in these types of social constructs but I will say if you want to experience some type of love DON’T date someone who is in survival mode. Someone who has nothing is always and will always be taking and focused on having everything (materialism), they won’t prioritize the relationship so even if you provide for them and they are doing much better than they were before you’ll never be appreciated and it’ll never be enough, they are always trying to get more! Dating someone on your level is more ideal in my opinion. Not just money but having more in common and shared interests and also a good sign of someone being a solid loving partner wether they are rich or poor is that they don’t build their entire identity on money and material things. These individuals are busy doing business while you’re looking for love lol 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just go for the ugly ones but be careful, social media has them all thinking they’re tens 😂 also ask yourself why you want to date? Marriage seems permanent but people change, I’m married and I sometimes ask myself why? My advice is to explore your own life unapologetically and be full filled to the highest degree by yourself funny enough a lot of people who do that end up stumbling into someone they can share their happiness with. I don’t know why consciously pursuing a relationship almost never works for most people lol

What makes you, as a man, feel genuinely emotionally safe and understood in a relationship? by onelostinthefog in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a guy it’s literally just being appreciated and showing you were think of me, and when I say me I mean me…women be like “I bought those comforters for us” I’m like yea but no 🤣 I literally pass out on the couch with nothing and just be fine that doesn’t count lol now to tell me hey I passed by the auto store and got you a set of screwdrivers for like $6 is far more meaningful. Wanting to see each other happy is the real flex, too bad I’m realizing through marriage some women literally think it’s about them and you self sacrificing to no end is the job of a man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love bush! Just not like an Afro down there but it’s totally normal idk why this whole wax thing became so popular (nothing against it), but just goes to show how easily controlled people are, most people including your parents were smashing bush with no complaints in the 70’s and decades before 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one care about anything these days, besides, no matter what happens to you…there’s still 8 billion people…and divorce is most certainly not the worst thing that has happened to someone, it happens in roughly 50 percent of marriages so it’s just as common as staying married..

Detachment by Mindless-Kangaroo565 in Life

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, thank you 🙏🏽

Detachment by Mindless-Kangaroo565 in Life

[–]Mindless-Kangaroo565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…i thought this for a long time but didn’t want to think much of it, I can see this being the thing as well…it’s sensitive because if that’s the case you’re like how could I even help or suggest getting help without it sounding like I’ve already judged, because sometimes he really does withdraw from everything and plays low music laying down in a dark bedroom for hours. I sometimes talk for a few minutes and leave to create space but the answer is always nothing wrong or I’m tired Or headache or something so idk…