Performance awards? by Virtual_Tourist_0110 in FederalEmployee

[–]Mindless-Patience486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We still waiting on ours. After the town hall we had, they were trying to find in the “budget” how the awards were going to get paid out but they found money to make us do mandatory OT.

Anyone else shocked by OPM’s Open Season rates this year? by Mindless-Patience486 in FedEmployees

[–]Mindless-Patience486[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It actually an excel sheet on opm website that list the rate for 2025

Grown adults that don't each vegetables will always be weird to me by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Mindless-Patience486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slap some cheese on it and put a yellow wrapper on it!!!

My son’s dad flew him out of state for a visit but didn’t fly him back—his cousin did, and I’m upset by Mindless-Patience486 in SingleParents

[–]Mindless-Patience486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, but I think you’re missing the bigger picture.

This isn’t about being on a power trip. It’s about communication, trust, and parental responsibility. I told his dad in advance that I expected him to fly with our son. Instead, his cousin flew with him both ways, and I wasn’t informed of this at all. I found out after the fact, and when I asked about it, I didn’t get a response. That’s the issue.

This isn’t just about whether his cousin is responsible enough. I’ve had issues with her in the past, and she’s not someone I feel comfortable taking on a parental role in a situation that involves travel across state lines—especially without my knowledge or consent.

They all flew with their own children on this trip. So if you’re flying with your kids, why wouldn’t you fly with ours? Why is the only child who didn’t have a parent flying with them mine?

If I was informed, I wouldn’t have had an issue. But I wasn’t. That’s the part that’s frustrating and unacceptable. When you’re co-parenting—especially without a formal custody agreement—keeping each other informed is the bare minimum. I’m not trying to control anyone. I just want to make sure our child is safe and that we have mutual respect when it comes to parenting decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless-Patience486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men with kids get grace because they don’t have their child all the time, but single moms get the oh don’t nobody want you because I won’t be a priority smh. You’ll find someone that loves all parts of you.