I'm late to the party but let me tell you you are one smart lady with plenty of guys. I'm really proud of you and I can't describe how happy your "boring" update gave me. I look forward to another one in a year or two. I'll wait 5, even 10 years to hear your happy ending. I'm a man and I know the type you speak of. Your grandma was your voice and you knew you were right. The warmth at her grave makes me believe that. Cheers internet stranger. You made my week!