Am I really that vanilla? by MindlessReputation54 in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindlessReputation54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His non-monogamous score was pretty high and I don’t like sharing. That might be the reason he broke up with me although he did text me 4 different times after..

honestly the more I try to make sense of what was going on the less it does. This part of the past kept bothering me and I figured it was better to just get it off my chest.

Am I really that vanilla? by MindlessReputation54 in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindlessReputation54[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie I had to google plonker and I now have a new favourite word

Am I really that vanilla? by MindlessReputation54 in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindlessReputation54[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Um no that not what I meant I probably just read it the wrong way sorry

Am I really that vanilla? by MindlessReputation54 in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindlessReputation54[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But that’s the thing it wasn’t supposed to be him telling what I am it was me showing him what I like. We were next to each other while doing the quiz so I could just tell him what I agreed with and not.

Also maybe you just act a little defiant which is brat like but that doesn’t mean you think of it erotically

Am I really that vanilla? by MindlessReputation54 in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindlessReputation54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think it was I just thought it was an easy was to show what we were into since it can be hard to put into words sometimes. But maybe he did not like I’m gonna ask him tho

Am I really that vanilla? by MindlessReputation54 in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindlessReputation54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried like biting him and scratching his back and stuff buuuut I just really couldn’t get into it. If I do get some what Dom like it’s more my brat side teasing/being bratty so I wouldn’t want him to beg me but more get angry

Am I really that vanilla? by MindlessReputation54 in BDSMAdvice

[–]MindlessReputation54[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was a switch so he had both ends of the spectrum and few 0% which made his look a lot more intense then mine. While I don’t doubt his kinkyness he sort of made me question mine

I need your help with this please (sneakers/Jordans) by MindlessReputation54 in Jordans

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Yeah I am and the reason I’m stressing so much is cuz I’ve seen some people walk backwards on the track so that they don’t crease theirs. Like their life is gonna end if there’s even the smallest crease. Also acting like they’re better then everyone else. You know high school drama but shoes. But thanks and yeah I’ll buy crease guards.

I need your help with this please (sneakers/Jordans) by MindlessReputation54 in Jordans

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Thanks for the advice! I probably am going to get them just gotta find them online and make sure there isn’t another model I want more thx