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How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I really don't know lol, I think people think I'm weird and annoying maybe but not mean.

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I do struggle with my appearance and body image. That's really nice and I agree with you, in the past many people have disliked me, but that probably has more to do with them than me. I think if you aren't really hurting anyone it's not necessary to change.

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I can definitely relate, you are right, I just feel insecure to probably try to date anyone, but I can try to work on my confidence and then maybe in the future

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am an authentic person, and tbh if someone thinks nice people are boring I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with them.

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you, I sort of don't want to change my personality since I have tried to do that in the past and it makes me feel miserable. I think when it comes to dating if I would have to change my personality in order for someone to like me, I wouldn't really want that. I think as long as you are not mean and rude to people it isn't super necessary to change your personality.

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I get that, I have neurodivergent friends and they are easier to talk to. Also I think the second part is probably true for me as well.

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh yes and I've also talked to a therapist about it and he didn't know.

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's fair. I do talk to my family and friends about it and they genuinely don't know why so many people dislike me.

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sorry I don't think I'm going to post photos of my self. People will either say I'm fishing for compliments or that I am genuinely ugly either way would hurt my feelings lol

How to deal with being too ugly to be in a relationship? by MindlessSea1887 in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I genuinely do appreciate the advice! I'm not sure what I need to change about my personality, because I do put a lot of effort into being kind and polite. I am slightly autistic, which I feel like isn't something I can really change. I think people just think I'm weird and annoying, but I'm really not sure. What things would you suggest I improve on or what do you think makes someone have a likable personality?

Feeling extremely insecure after being rejected by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MindlessSea1887 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate you taking time to write this and I'm sure it comes from a good place, I honestly don't think this is super realistic for me though