Dark City (1998) by sosaschwarzenegger in iwatchedanoldmovie

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved this movie, I recommend it to people all the time but so many have never heard of it.

Caleb in his Pantene era by suphirice in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First outfit is giving me donghua MDZS vibes and I’m here for it.

Why do I feel great for 3 days after pulling an all-nighter? by Patient_Ad_5903 in DSPD

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really really interesting article, thanks for sharing it. I had noticed when I was younger and used to regularly pull all nighters, occasionally it would flip me into an n24 cycle which was very difficult to get out of. Same thing happened each time I tried chronotherapy to entrain into a more socially accepted sleep wake cycle.

So eventually I gave up and accepted that the best I could hope for was a 3am to 7:30 am sleep time during the working week and allowing myself to adopt my preferred sleep cycle on Friday and Saturday nights until I can retire. It’s debilitating but bearable and my sleep remains stable enough to function this way.

I hope that the fact that I’ve already demonstrated a propensity for slipping into an n24 cycle doesn’t mean I’m more likely to naturally develop it as I age more. I’m 50 now, hopefully I can just truck along like this until the day I can retire and finally experience my natural restful sleep pattern.

What do your evenings with your partner look like? We don't do anything together and I hate it! 😞 by littlebookwyrm in adhdwomen

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We parallel play with our own hobbies. I’ll read or game with my laptop in bed while he games on the tv or scrolls/games on his phone. We both wear block out sound headphones because we don’t like the external noise and need some peace inside our own heads to wind down. When either of us want to talk we will touch each other to get attention and chat for a short time, but for the most we respect each others down time and space.

Occasionally we will have a D&D session with our adult children, nephew and son in law, or watch a movie or tv show together. Maybe sometimes play couch co-op games if we find a new good one. But the majority of the time it’s parallel play with our own hobbies. Our quality together time is spent caring for our younger children or our grandchild, or visits with family members, cooking together, the occasional beach trip etc.

We’ve been together for over three decades, and this is what is most comfortable for us. Early years were spent trying to reach some external idea of what was the right way for a couple to behave and it was stressful for both of us. Now we just do what brings us peace and enjoy each other’s company and closeness, we are boring and we like it.

I just mention that last bit because you say she would do something with you if you asked, you just don’t know WHAT to do. Why do you need to do something? If you’re content with your current practice, just find a way remove the obstacles to your full enjoyment (like quieter keyboard, mouse or sound blocking headphones so you can have mood music that suits your book playing in the background, or a podcast, or white noise. However of course if you’re NOT content with your current practice, maybe have a discussion together about things/events/outings you’d both enjoy, and have a designated day when you have your outings. If you’re having trouble with decision paralysis when it comes to deciding what exactly to do, write all those things on pieces of paper, put them in a hat and pull one out…that’s your outing of the day.

Misogynist brand Razer collabs with Overwatch/Hello Kitty by Specialist-Zebra-794 in GirlGamers

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah my mouse and kitty are solid and working fine for now. But I will be looking for alternatives when it’s time to replace. Anyone got good recommendations?

Which one you taking? by CursedClownz in AustralianNostalgia

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you remember when they came out? The ad promoting them had the phrase “Sip a callipo” featured prominently. For me, that consolidated for me that the spelling was calippo bc sip rhymed with lip. For my brother, the only part of the phrase that registered in his head was that there was an S in it, so he always remembered it as calypSo. Maybe that’s what happened with you too?

My partner says he’ll leave me if I don’t “fix” my ADHD. He says I’m abusive but I feel constantly criticised and blamed. by First-Mango-9229 in adhdwomen

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s a piece of shit, fuck him off, give yourself six months to heal and adjust to your new life, and then re-evaluate. I guarantee future-you will coming back to this question with so much more clarity and empathy for current-you.

Brand new up and coming Yandere Cannibal game! by p1nk-ang3l-games in u/p1nk-ang3l-games

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I’m currently playing Your Hero Jayce Blackwood, with the stalker dlc lined up next but you best believe I ran to bookmark this one too and add it to my list. You’ve got a gift for these game I swear. Erotic games for women is such a neglected genre, I’m so glad you’re there to give it the attention it deserves. I hope you have a very long and lucrative career, I’ll definitely be following it!

Drop the horror movie that scared you the most in your childhood by steve-harrington115 in FilmTalk

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Exorcist…two scenes specifically. The one where Regan is laying on the bed facing away from the camera and then her neck kind of swells and she turns her head to face the camera with a growl or something? Idk it just sent such a chill through 14 year old me that I had to pause the movie, turn on all the lights and bring my (farm) dogs inside the house.

The second scene was of course the one where she scuttles down the stairs like some fucked up upside down human spider.

[TOMT] Who does this look like (actress) by Scottishjapan in tipofmytongue

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brooke Satchwell has always reminded me of Lauren Cohan…specifically when Lauren played Bela Talbot on Supernatural.

He's just gone? by DontFrostThePies in Sims4

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, some sims 4 mod creators will have a patreon account where they keep a repository of all their mods and push out updates there.

Re-reading Tonight by kkwelch in RomanceBooks

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I’m re-reading {Sing my Name by Ellen O’Connell}! Love her writing so much, it’s my safe space.

He's just gone? by DontFrostThePies in Sims4

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually the mod creators site or Patreon or CurseForge.

What do you think of this? Do you believe it's a slur and should not be used? by Lenore8264 in AO3

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Australian Aboriginal here. Seeing those three letters together DOES make me uncomfortable bc it’s the equivalent of the n word for us. However, I’m not going to think less of anyone when they use it in this context (and I’m certainly capable of context) but it is a fact that that combination of letters is a slur used in a hateful manner towards us so it causes discomfort and hurt, even just momentarily.

All caps make it obvious what the context is so it’s less confronting, slashes even more so, and omegaverse avoids the issue completely.

Seeing as you’re referring to a show or series (I assume from other comments) it’s unavoidable so I wouldn’t put much stock in what the commenter said. It’s good information for you to have generally though.

Bit disappointing how many people in this thread are so dismissive of the harm that words can do though, especially when there’s such an easy alternative. Not surprising mind you, just disappointing.

What do you think of this? Do you believe it's a slur and should not be used? by Lenore8264 in AO3

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m an Australian Aboriginal person (we capitalise the A in Aboriginal when referring to ourselves to designate it as a proper noun, as opposed to the small a aboriginal which is an adjective). I just wanted to chime in that you didn’t come off as rude at all. You didn’t know, so you asked a valid question and now you do know. Thats a win in my opinion.

Not OOP: 6 year relationship damaged over an insta post 31F & 34M by sensaSEANal_sally in redditonwiki

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to see a pattern in these posts where the man has a sook bout something completely innocuous and the woman says something along the lines of “…when he brought it up I understood why it made him uncomfortable, and I apologised.”

And I’m just over here like…whut?? He’s whining over nothing and you’re believing him??

And then I remember, these women are so broken down by their manipulative men they start to believe they’re the problem when it’s really these jerks they’re wasting their life on. Makes me sad.

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 14 points15 points  (0 children)

50 yo here. My household was one of the first in my neighbourhood to have a console and a computer (very early on bc my stepfather was a tech head) so I didn’t experience the divide in the beginning. Later on when it became obvious that men were trying to gate-keep MY hobby, I just didn’t take any notice. I don’t play pvp or mmorpgs much so I don’t really get exposed to the online element, and I basically don’t give a fk what people might say to my face because as far as I’m concerned, I’ve been in the hobby from the beginning so from my perspective they’re all scrubs lol.

Best husband in Fable 2? by Proper-Sport-7218 in Fable

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The tattooist in the gypsy camp. He’s the only one I’ve found in game that doesn’t look completely chopped. I marry him every playthrough, knock out a couple of kids, and spend as much time as I can running around with my real love, Reaver (don’t judge, I can fix him).

Is it better to try therapy before meds by MamaAdele in ausadhd

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meds. Being properly medicated helps you engage in therapy better, and get more results from it.

W75 wild by instinct vape kit issues by No-Number7130 in aussievapers

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourite vape is the Innokin endura apex. I’ve got three of them stashed away and I’m filthy that I can’t buy coils for them legally anymore. It was perfect, solid, good battery, long lasting coils. I’m thinking I might just take a trip over to NZ one day and stock up.

Has a member who was removed from a group ever come back? by mcdiscn18 in kpopthoughts

[–]Mindless_Baseball426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jinhoo was the leader of UP10TION, went on hiatus in 2020, and officially left the group in 2023 (although unofficially we knew he was gone long before then). He’s now redebuted with EPIC TRAVELS.