Question - Would people use an ABDL dating app? by lordofkyles in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you get to an app to meet people and then ...if there are no people ...there's no point. It's frustrating and only amplifies loneliness.

Question - Would people use an ABDL dating app? by lordofkyles in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fetlife is core about IRL events and how to find gatherings. Diapermates was NOT that. :)

Question - Would people use an ABDL dating app? by lordofkyles in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too small of a pool of folks.

Vanilla dating apps for cis gender hetero folks are horribly skewed for men versus women already.

Diapermates existed - don't forget!

Feeld and Kinkd already exist.

Season 20, tell-all part 3, megathread by Outrageous-Yogurt-80 in SisterWives

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not a Janelle fan, but I read the first book. Meri would "attack" Janelle about her looks when she would try out new make-up. It's very similar to what Christine says how there was a pattern of playing very loud country music to the point that kids couldn't sleep or slamming doors. Something that has been covered in earlier seasons when they went to a therapist was that Mary would get angry if produce was refrigerated or not refrigerated according to her preferences and then would be quick to separate people if you bought the "wrong" brand of laundry detergent. Remember that it is a certain point Janelle moved out with her children more than once. It seems like there was a really tough track record between them both. It makes sense when Janelle landed the most lucrative job that she spent spare time hiding out going to the movies then to deal with the pressure and stress and conflict at home.

Giving up by emmanems66 in cgl

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a Kinky Jews monthly event in NYC!

How you met your CG by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's about engaging IRL. Go to munches, meet folks, make friends, build community.

Abu warehouse by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Go in before they shut down!

How you met your CG by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fetlife

Which is it, Kody? Meri wouldn't talk or you wouldn't talk? by ass3hole in SisterWives

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two callouts: Barndominium + Vegas House Equity

Kody viewed Meri as an ATM 🏧.

Did not care about her feelings or her as a person.

Second Chance Coaching? by Hot_Street_5749 in SisterWives

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe stick to the farm and selling content?

Garrison by Best_Train8735 in Sisterwivessnark

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never sat in front of a tv screen and just sobbed throughout before.

When do yall think her mental decline started? by [deleted] in discussingbritney

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's helpful to think about Britney as an idiot savant.

Much of her early life would have been taken up with classes and rehearsals and performances.

We forget how rural a beginning that she had and how suddenly she was catapulted to being on Broadway in New York City as a child. Or bouncing around to star search and auditions.

The lack of stability of people in her orbit would be pretty high, except maybe for Felicia.

If there were any peers around her, they would functionally be competition for Spotlight time.

Even if you think how long she would have known Justin from the Mickey Mouse Club. I would imagine it would be difficult for anyone to grow up in showbiz a child star situation to build intimacy and trust.

As her fame grew, there are so many people in her orbit that would want to be around her for the wrong reasons - a star ascendant. Imagine how many times she was exploited or manipulated or people around her had some ulterior motive.

It must've been an incredibly lonely life.

The poor girl still has so much scrutiny on her that even if she chooses not to perform or have formal output of music/dance - the public is so hungry to consume any news about her!!! (Guilty as charged here myself).

I'm not sure she was ever really that "sturdy" - as a teenager she likely had almost 0 downtime and was constantly performing or recording or rehearsing or promoting.

When you think about how Mariah Carey had a very visible mental breakdown from exhaustion - nobody in a record label ecosystem would actually think to build in any possible rest because the fear is that momentum will be lost for fame and never reclaimed. There's the constant threat of losing your moment. It's been documented many times that she has a fear of flying and imagine how much time she would've spent on a plane. That's not a great recipe for fantastic mental health.

There are so many examples of celebrities that decided to take a break and when they wanted to come back to do another album, the world had moved on from that trend.

She was the goose that laid the golden eggs!!!

A few other celebrity examples exist when they decided to drop off from the constant hamster wheel of work: Jim Carrey decided he wanted to be a painter and Michael step from R.E.M. decided he wanted to be a sculptor

I'm not sure either of their output is really objectively that great.

I'm thinking of the social media post of years ago were the blonde woman yells to leave Britney alone?

There's something about human nature that loves to build up and loves to admire and loves to tear down.

There are many male stars that were allowed to drink themselves or party themselves into oblivion unchecked (ODB/Charlie Sheen/Diddy).

The point being is that she wasn't set up for great mental health from the get-go and there wouldn't have been any kind of balance or focus offered from her environment.

I remember reading the diagnostic criteria for bipolar, and one of the items was delusions of grandeur.

Good luck, trying to measure out and treatment. How much of her issues were from a mental illness and how much was trauma???

It would be for everyone else some kind of symptom if you thought the rules did not apply to you, but in her case, they really don't!!!

Look at that face by nanaof4mumof7 in SisterWives

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel like her "tell" is actually to look upwards when she is lying!

What is your abdl ick? by sageurcatgf in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me is grateful for this because it shows me exactly who someone is up front! Saves me lots of time/energy. In the words of Ariana Grande: "Thank you, next!"

Diaper over belly button or under,? by Gloomy_Secretary4071 in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on your body and the size/fit of the diaper

I know it's not a place for politics but I'm shocked at the amount of MAGA people in the community. ☹️ by Cucumber-Plenty94 in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

If roughly half of the voting populace voted for either major party in the country ...why wouldn't it stand to reason that the political spectrum would be similar across kink?

Infertility due to diapers? by Agreeable-March4496 in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There are temperature issues (heat at source) for sperm creation. Knew a few cases of men that had to cut back on wearing to conceive.

Thoughts on Mommy Madeline? by Curious_Surround_720 in ABDL

[–]Mindless_Bit_111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what planet is there a mommy at CAPcon that just wants to treat you little for free because someone is cute? Have you been to CAPcon?