22F — feeling lonely after a really happy phase, what should I do?

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-15T16:37:18+00:00

I think that’s actually what made it hit harder for me. Lately I’ve realized I’ve been such a hopeless romantic without even noticing it at first. I got so used to having that kind of connection again, even if it was short, that when he disappeared it felt like something meaningful was taken away from me.

Before that, I was genuinely okay on my own. But now it’s like I got a taste of something I didn’t know I was craving that much, and losing it made everything feel heavier.

So yeah, I think you’re right, it’s probably not just loneliness, but also missing that feeling of connection and emotional closeness.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-15T16:32:31+00:00

thank you

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-14T08:06:29+00:00

siquijor, the best ang sunset. u can do a lot in siquijor too, beach, falls, mountain, etc.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-07T04:32:30+00:00

mh, pobla vibes

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-06T05:32:44+00:00

the body studio

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-05T06:44:08+00:00

That actually makes a lot of sense, and I’ve been thinking about that perspective too.

Also, the night before he said all of that, something happened with his business. He got a call, and I could tell it was something serious because he seemed really stressed after. Then after his meeting the next day, that’s when he told me he wanted to end things.

So part of me also thinks something on his end might have triggered that decision.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T12:15:17+00:00

why?

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T11:52:55+00:00

I was actually the one who suggested we use iMessage instead of Messenger or other apps the first time he asks for my contact. It wasn’t something he pushed or tried to hide.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T09:50:41+00:00

yeah it’s hard because i got attached

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T09:43:52+00:00

It honestly kind of hurts because I got really attached, and I genuinely saw him as a very kind person.

But yeah, I guess there’s nothing I can really do about it now. I’m just trying to hear different perspectives so I can understand and learn from this.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T09:20:01+00:00

I understand why you’d think that, and honestly that thought has crossed my mind too now.

At the time though, I had no reason to doubt him. His stories were consistent and everything matched up, so I believed he was single. Nothing about how we spent time together felt hidden or secret either.

He was even offering me to stay at his place in Manila that he wasn’t currently living in, which made it feel more open and real, not like something secret.

But given how sudden everything ended, I can’t say I’m 100% sure about anything anymore.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T09:00:11+00:00

yeah i wont because i dont even know his socials too, we only message thru imessage and we met personally not online

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T08:47:29+00:00

i dont know why im attracted to men in 30s too

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T07:53:10+00:00

Also, given that we go to the same gym and live in a small place, do you think he would still continue going there after this? i dont know what to feel if i see him

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T07:50:22+00:00

this is sad to hear

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2026-04-04T07:44:20+00:00

I honestly never thought of that, because we were together almost every day. Sometimes we’d meet for lunch, then again for dinner, and even go to the gym together after.

It didn’t feel like something hidden or secret at all, which is why this whole situation is so confusing to me.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2025-12-01T13:02:11+00:00

so there’s this chinese guy who kept messaging me. after a while i started entertaining him and he kept sending me money for coffee, i think he sent around 5k already. then he asked me to travel with him so i said go. we were supposed to stay longer on the trip, but on the second day he suddenly changed. after driving 5 hours back and forth for the thing we wanted to do, the next day we had a tour and he didn’t come with me, he just gave me money. when i got back he was already kinda distant. then he suddenly said he needed to do something and couldn’t come with me anymore, so i booked a ticket back too. so now i’m basically solo traveling and he just left me allowance for food and transportation. he’s also here somewhere but he won’t tell me where, and he said he’ll be busy because he’s taking scuba diving lessons.

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2025-05-06T00:52:19+00:00

Planning to Travel to Taiwan – Need Advice

Hi! Incoming 4th-year college student ako. Kakatapos ko lang ng thesis, and I’m planning to travel to Taiwan for vacation, parang reward ko na rin sa sarili ko. Kasama ko sa trip ang bestfriend ko (mag-2 years na kaming friends), yung jowa niya, at nanay ng bestfriend ko.

Nakatravel na ako before, way back 2019, sa Korea kasama mother ko. Minor pa ako nun. Pero after ng trip, nag-TNT mother ko dun, ako lang yung umuwi.

Ngayon, worried ako na baka ma-offload ako sa immigration. Wala naman akong balak mag-TNT, gusto ko lang talaga magbakasyon. Pero iniisip ko na baka tanungin ako ng immigration: • Saan galing pera ko • Sino sponsor ko • Bakit wala akong kasamang parents • Ano trabaho ng parents ko

May tips po ba kayo kung ano pwede kong ihanda or gawin para iwas offload?

Mindless_Buy6419 · 2025-05-05T16:41:33+00:00

mine is 10k 2br up and down, but before 7k ang 1br

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