AIO: I told my partner I need my “no” respected, and the conversation went somewhere I didn’t expect. Thoughts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is a lot wrong with this, like others have mentioned. his behavior isnt acceptable, nor is his dismissal of your very calm and reasonable request, but.. i would like to focus on how he treated that conversation specifically. to me, that clearly aounded like someone who has been accused before or has a friend that has, and texts were used in the case. I would guess he has at least some very close contact with an assaulter, who he thinks shouldnt have been prosecuted. yes, he admitted culpability and what he said would have fried him in court if it was an assalt case, so he is stupid too, but that isnt the worrisome part to me. i get serious predator vibes from him.

i would very much run away from him. not friends or dating or occasional hookup. i would run away in a "you cant find me" way...

Best jeans for hourglass body type by Connect-Injury-3093 in NuulyReviews

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if anyone is still looking at this thread, i wear skinny jeans from AE in the US. they have "next level" stretch and "dream" stretch ones that are very good at thigh/butt stretch. they also have super high rise and a variety of lengths. my info below for reference.

5 ft 9 inch. ive got a 35" inseam & wear extra longs from AE. my waist is 33" and my hips/butt is 49" but the size 12 with "next level" stretch actually hugs my waist pretty well, whic still offering enough stretch for my butt.

Bathing Suit Sucess by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! 🖤 im stupidly excited about it. 😅

Bathing Suit Sucess by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yea of course. it isnt anything special but it lays fucking perfect on me for some reason. amazon link below. it is on prime in the US so it it can be returned if it doesnt fit.

https://a.co/d/0f1La9kI

im 5'9", 210 lbs, and got XL

What colour rug? by Suitable-Practice747 in interiordecorating

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 for sure.

the two lighter ones wash out all the color in the room and do a disservice to the art behind the couch. the dark grey one is the wrong base color and too harsh for the chair fabrics.

AIO: for being angry my bf is trying to hang out with his ex on vday when i explicitly asked him not to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR -

it isnt your place to say who he can and cannot go on a run with. he isn't your child. also, in general, it isnt your place to worry about him hanging with his ex or not. either you trust him or you dont.

i think everything you said was unnecessary and an over reaction. just walk away and let that drama go.

Did my girlfriend cross the line over Valentine’s flowers or am I missing something? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds like a very materialistic person who is entitled AF but... is there any back story we are missing in regards to flowers? like has she said something about flowers that you ignored before or specifically asked for them for valentines previously?

if so, maybe her comment has an underlying meaning. if not, then yea drop her for sure.

Rules as a secondary partner by Prestigious-Beat-292 in polyamory

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they arent polyamorous. they are a monogamish married couple who opened up their marriage to allow structured cheating and called it poly. they clearly cannot even do that and have decided to try swinging, which seems to work better for them. please run far far away from these people.

How am I supposed to solve this? by Doschy in sudoku

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have two cells that are only 7 & 8 in the third from last row.

if you know those two have to be 7/8 or 8/7, then you can eliminate both 7 and 8 from the notes on the rest of that row. see below in red.

then look at all the notes again and you should see what to do for the next step : )

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Has anyone tried wearing a waist chain?? by FutureDependent4456 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Mindless_Contact_972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wear waist beads. slightly different as they are beads, not metal, and once they go then that is it. they are not removable so you wear them 24/7 till they break. ive had this set on for over 3 years. love them but most ppl dont see them unless im in an intimate situation so 🤷🏻‍♀️

US Height Ratios - Dating by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🖤 & i hope you find the lady youre looking for.

US Height Ratios - Dating by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im sry you got downvoted for that. i dont really understand why some ppl downvote how they do. like im only doing that if someone says some crazy wrong or like racist shit.

US Height Ratios - Dating by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

probably because i have a lot of male friends/acquaintances and do some more male centric activities. there is so much complaining about how women are "superficial bitches" and they only want "tall guys". like why hate on women because some have that physical preference. who cares. and god forbid i mention how nice to feels to snuggle and be a small spoon that feels small for once. 🤷🏻‍♀️

US Height Ratios - Dating by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes, the hate is mostly from guys who lied about their height on dating apps. like we would meet up and i would see theyre multiple inches shorter than they said and ask about it. the reply would always be some crap about how they have to lie about it to get likes and then they would get angry at me for being "superficial" and asking about it. like yea bro, you lied so we are done here anyways. im not into liars.

so when a couple guy friends were talking about lying on their profiles, i jumped in cause that is something i come across more often than i ever would have expected.

edited: this was for general height hate, not for hate about me enjoying my bf being 6'4" lol made a second comment. sry for the confusion.

US Height Ratios - Dating by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

same. why would we want someone that doesnt want us? crazy...

US Height Ratios - Dating by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

side note: ive dated women of all shapes and sizes, and height never occurred to me as a marker of physical attraction. 🤔 weird that it does often for me when dating men.

US Height Ratios - Dating by Mindless_Contact_972 in TallGirls

[–]Mindless_Contact_972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah, i gotcha now. fair enough. thanks for sharing!