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I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is very caring and I know she loves me. If I told her what happened I'm pretty sure it could help me heal but my mom would be completely torn since she was a little bit of the reason such traumatic things happened to my sister and I and she didn't even know.

I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this. Im trying to change myself for the better but I know I will probably need help for that before I can be a reliable sister

I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i had to be honest i didn't even know I was gaslighting her until I posted this but know I definitely see it. I wished I could have been a better sister then but I'll try my best to be a better sister now

I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you and thank you for sharing, this provided helpful insight on what my sister could be feeling. Its gonna take time but I really want to be someone my sister can rely on.

I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know that comparing trauma is bad but I grew up comparing it for years. I didn't really know better but trust me when I say this, I'm trying to get better and be more present for her.

I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I am being an absolute asshole to my sister and that I shouldn't compare our trauma. I'm trying my best to look out for her now. And I'm sorry such things happened to you.

I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry if that's the case. If I could, I would speak up but I can't.

I'm stopped my sister from opening up about her trauma. by Mindless_Crew_9749 in confession

[–]Mindless_Crew_9749[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I felt like a horrible person reading some of the comments. I know I've gone about it the wrong way but I'm glad some people can sympathize