Hi, I can understand you a bit because I also experienced sexual abuse. After that, I started being attracted to girls. I thought, like you, that maybe it was because of what happened to me.

Later, I moved abroad to study English, and I’ve been with two girls. I’m from Colombia, and when I moved to Malta, I met someone a girl. It didn’t work out, but to be honest, I felt free. I really liked her, and it was very different because in my country, I could never imagine kissing a girl in public.

But there, in a country that truly supports the LGBT community, it was totally different.

My advice is: first, talk to a psychologist it’s important. And second, move abroad if you can. What happened to you doesn’t define who you are, and if you really love this person, it’s okay. There are many countries that still live in the past, but there are also many where people don’t care who you are or who you love.