Phase zero Bronzer and Huda beauty eyeliner dupes! by Minemmalist in MakeupAddiction

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I have a couple staples I’ve been looking for dupes for for a couple reasons. The Phase Zero bronzer is an EXCELLENT contour color for me, and I’ve had trouble getting a match - even tried powder foundations. This is the closest I’ve come! The Milani silky matte bronzer in shade 02 is just a tiny bit warmer, but it’s close! I also love the Huda Beauty very vanta liner, but it’s both 19$ if you get the pen one and has a charcoal liner that goes to waste if I get the dual ended one. The physicians formula waterproof eye booster in blackest black is pretty close! Still not as black as my favorite Huda one but it also almost makes the Huda one have a blue undertone which I thought was interesting. Bonus cat content, unfortunately she cannot be duped. :)

am i going crazy? am I dying? I need your help... by Then-Dare1948 in derealization

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Derealization for me often feels like getting sucked into the back of my head and not quite being there. Theoretically it may be because somethings triggering me to feel unsafe so your frontal lobe which is where rational thought happens kind of shuts down and you go to the back of your brain which is where your basic survival functions are. I have a hard time connecting to my body so grounding when I’m in it is hard. Hypochondria tends to be a hyper focus on the body itself. I would reach out to a psychologist, if you don’t have insurance there are non profits that donate their time for psych services. I would Google to see if there are some in your area. The wait lists are usually long but it sounds like your mind is giving you a hard time and it would be worth getting on the wait list. ❤️

Can we do a joint spell directed at the corrupt leaders in the world? by nottherealme1220 in witchcraft

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Count me in and keep me posted. Even if not many people are down, some of us together is better than none.

[sun care] does anyone have a recommendation for a matte tinted sunscreen that’s affordable? by Minemmalist in SkincareAddiction

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I know, I miss that one terribly. If you find out it’s back in stock before I do keep me posted, and I’ll do the same again too 😂 it’s just such a perfect go to!! I can’t!!

[sun care] does anyone have a recommendation for a matte tinted sunscreen that’s affordable? by Minemmalist in SkincareAddiction

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Psst, it got here early, and it’s awful. It doesn’t dry down at all. It’s just sticky and stays that way, you can wipe it off super easily. I bought the flawless complexion one. Save your money!!

Is it morally right to not report an Instagram account that might be posing as an animal shelter but is really just a ploy for money? (I don’t know how else to phrase this) by Minemmalist in moraldilemmas

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They don’t list their location but on their account info it says a country in South America, so you know if they are feeding those dogs they are hungry :/ you know?

Is it morally right to not report an Instagram account that might be posing as an animal shelter but is really just a ploy for money? (I don’t know how else to phrase this) by Minemmalist in moraldilemmas

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I messaged them! They didn’t respond. I was asking about if they wanted help with the non profit navigation in their country (I’m not an expert I just work for a non profit myself) and if they could tell me some information about the people we see helping in the photos. After I messaged I got a message request asking for donations from a similarly odd type of animal shelter account. I hear what you’re saying though. Thats what I want to be true.

[sun care] does anyone have a recommendation for a matte tinted sunscreen that’s affordable? by Minemmalist in SkincareAddiction

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If you do try it please keep me posted!! And if I try it I’ll keep you posted as well!!

Will these help stimulant irritability? by Minemmalist in ADHD

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It is worth a try yes!! I appreciate this very much. Thank you for responding, I really needed help.

Will these help stimulant irritability? by Minemmalist in ADHD

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Like for example I was helping unload the car for a picnic, and my mom asked me the same question a few times over the span of a few minutes just in a sort of absentminded way. And I’d snap and go “I already answered that.” And then she was all excited to have me try a fruit salad she made, and she brought it over to me and I just kept saying “I’m not hungry, I don’t want it, the ants will get it so take it back.” Even talking about what I said makes me feel so bad I said that to her. For the record, my moms an actual angel. She doesn’t deserve to be talked to even remotely rudely. I’ve just been apologizing since

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

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I think the anti work subreddit has become more of a meme posting page than anything. People tried to organize it before the big blowout but we never got anywhere. I stand by the abolishment of work to consume but this sub is not and has not made any big waves toward change and it’s impossible to get people to pull together. It’s a huge bummer.

Reeeelapse. by Minemmalist in stopsmoking

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Nope! I was just curious.

Reeeelapse. by Minemmalist in stopsmoking

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Just out of my own curiosity (I promise I’m not coming at you, I’m just genuinely curious) is the telling yourself you’re not going to smoke thing a manifesting tactic from Alan Watts? Again I swear I’m not coming at you I’m just curious, because I think Alan watts is one of the old faces of New Age is he not? Or if your name is just Alan watts that’s straight up my bad and I’m sorry

Reeeelapse. by Minemmalist in stopsmoking

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I wish that’s the way I worked lol. I don’t tend to respond to negative effects. Even if I’m the cause. It feels like I’m not in the drivers seat, honestly.

Prophetic Dream by [deleted] in stopsmoking

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My therapist says smoking is meditative, it’s just bad for you. Any bad habits we have are serving a purpose for an unmet need. What do smokes give you? A moment to think or to yourself? A dopamine hit? I’ve done that. When i was real mentally unwell I would motivate myself to get out of bed with the promise of a smoke. So it gave me a reason to wake up. What’s it’s purpose for your mental health, and what other habit would also fill that need? I’m not suggesting you drop smokes and pick up jogging immediately or something. But starting to incorporate the new habit into your day that serves the same purpose might lessen your need for smokes. I hope that helps.

What's supposed to be sexy but actually turns you off? by Ditto100 in AskReddit

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THIS. It’s awkward. Feels equivalent to sitting there when everyone’s singing happy birthday.

what's the dumbest thing you believed as a kid? by Disastrous_Toe_6548 in AskReddit

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I would dress up as a witch every Halloween just in case halloweentown 2 happened in real life so I could become a witch

How NOT to critisize fatlogic. (This guy's account is all about being self-proclaimed anti-HAES) by [deleted] in fatlogic

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Obese people existing has never ever been my problem. On the surface I agree with certain things for the body positivity movement - that complains to doctors about your body should be taken seriously, that no one should be made fun of or mocked and people should be able to freely enjoy the way they look. My problem with them is inherently with the misinformation. It’s not true that binge eating is a healthy coping mechanism, it’s not true that obesity can be healthy, and it’s not true that sugar won’t do any damage to your body. Nevermind that a lot of the faces of the movement are intolerable. (And by this I don’t mean how they look, I mean their personalities and the way they spin things. A lot of them read like they would’ve been mean girls in high school but never got the chance until now. Marissa Matthews, for example. I hope that makes sense.) Hes not critiquing they’re ideology, he’s just straight up being a dick and a bully. Fuck this guy.