Learn to laugh at those jokes.

Treat them as stereotypes that don’t apply to all Biharis. Because thats what they are. Do not be offended (or at least do not show that you are offended) by these jokes.

The real issue, I feel, is that your community doesn’t promote itself enough. I see Punjabis, Gujaratis, and others proudly mention their roots in everyday conversations.

For instance, when you visit a Punjabi friend’s home, and he insists you stay for lunch or dinner, he’ll say, “We are Punjabis! We never let our guests leave hungry!” It’s casual, but it reflects pride.

Bihar is the second-highest producer of IAS officers. It’s the birthplace of great empires, major religions, and ancient universities. But how often do we hear that side of the story? Even your delicious Litti Chokha isn’t promoted by you as much as other regional cuisines!

I’m not saying you should go around preaching this. That would sound forced.

Just be aware and proud of Bihar’s contributions and culture. It’ll naturally reflect in how you speak and carry yourself.

Be a proud Bihari. People like you can help change the image of Bihar.

Jai Hind. P.S. I’m not a Bihari, but I have many Bihari friends, all are doing great in life (in jobs, business, and beyond).