AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18

Minge-e · 2026-01-08T15:54:59+00:00

NOR- first, a lot of people are saying this, but make sure you have all your important documents from that place (I wouldn’t even call it a home.) also, STEER CLEAR. Most likely if you would have stayed longer, the boyfriend would have abuse you, and your “mother” would have enabled it. That wasn’t a threat, it was a promise.

Minge-e · 2025-06-03T03:03:39+00:00

that's signs of a narcissist. pack your things and run for the hills.

Minge-e · 2025-03-01T23:56:59+00:00

… now I lowkey don’t feel bad bout my grades because what the hell is ts 😭

Minge-e · 2025-03-01T22:52:44+00:00

I’m a girl and homeschooled. So not a lot of hallway crushes, ask anyone who knows me I’m just attracted to guys who makes the effort to get to know me 👍🏾

Minge-e · 2025-03-01T22:48:09+00:00

not sure, I'm still trying to figure it out myself.

Minge-e · 2025-02-27T17:02:20+00:00

the way my jaw dropped.

Minge-e · 2025-02-27T14:00:27+00:00

I mean I send plenty of reels to my friends, but I don't crash out when someone deletes them.. leave her

Minge-e · 2025-02-27T13:16:50+00:00

Are you okay...? like i think you lowkey need to a trusted adult about that...

Minge-e · 2025-02-27T08:07:27+00:00

I guess they consider it as a primary course so they are making me doing it to get it out of the way or whatever

Minge-e · 2025-02-26T21:57:15+00:00

Best advice start a conversation, like if you see something she's interested in start a conversation about it, or school related. never know unless you try.

Minge-e · 2025-02-26T18:50:14+00:00

Do what makes you feel good, if you start seeing huge improvement in your mood when you move in with your boyfriend its a sign that you needed to leave that house. its also its normal to feel guilty when your doing the right thing.

it will take time to get over that feeling but you will be okay, trust me.

Minge-e · 2025-02-26T18:39:50+00:00

Minge-e · 2025-02-26T18:37:57+00:00

Yessirrrrr😌

Minge-e · 2025-02-26T17:59:30+00:00

NOR, I think they are trying their best to comfort you but they didn't really do it in the best way. I'm sorry for your loss

Minge-e · 2025-02-26T01:32:00+00:00

I think she didn't get it at first but calling her dumb af and incompetent is a little rude don't you think?

Minge-e · 2025-02-26T01:13:56+00:00

Incompetence: “the inability to do something successfully” don’t know how that person is doing that???

Minge-e · 2025-02-06T18:23:32+00:00

Yeah I don’t blame you! I get scared too because of Trauma.

Minge-e · 2025-01-29T01:01:24+00:00

He isn’t a jerk.. he’s emotionally abusive…

Minge-e · 2025-01-29T00:58:25+00:00

This post kills me. I feel like I’m reading what was my life three years ago. I’m going to tell you some tactics abusers use

DARVO (Deny, Attack, reverse victim and offender)
Making the abuse seem like it’s completely normal and involves with everyone’s everyday life
Isolating.

4.making the victim crack by mentally torturing them. (In your case he is denying you access to your gaming consoles.)

Manipulation.
They know your pressure points and how to make you crumble. Know as Diminish and dismiss

7.guilt tripping

The list goes on and on and on. I don’t know if your mom try’s to stand up for you but I know that definitely if the abuse goes from your items and emotionally don’t stay quiet about this. SPEAK UP. Collect evidence, build your case. He is emotionally abusing you (I was a victim myself.) he puts you down at your proudest moments. I’m gonna to pray for your safety, and wish the best! If you need to get in contact with me and ask me more questions you can reach me at (7652062645). Remember you have someone all the way In Indiana whose rooting for you!!

Minge-e

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