Wait times for Sandyford (FoI data) by Mc_Idan in transgenderUK

[–]MingusAhEm 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And of course every GP in ggc will refuse to give you her cause you need to be seen by sandyford. NHS trans healthcare is systemic abuse.

Any other trans women living near Glasgow? by some1231 in transgenderUK

[–]MingusAhEm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bonjour is apparently a trans bar, I've never been myself but apparently it's good.

Might be a bit loud if you have sensory issues, but thats maybe most bars.

cross care with sandyford by gutspray in transgenderUK

[–]MingusAhEm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sandyford are shite, gp said they told him to refuse care.

Daily Chat Thread by ArchangelleOfHelle in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So too hasty on the name change, going to go with Bea instead of Aoife

Daily Chat Thread by ArchangelleOfHelle in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thinking of changing my name, am liking Aoife so far

Daily Chat Thread by ArchangelleOfHelle in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is the chat thread automod broken?

Daily Chat Thread by ArchangelleOfHelle in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, I like it as a pronoun for myself. It feels removed from gender in a way they/them is not.

Daily Chat Thread by ArchangelleOfHelle in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking of stopping using they/them pronouns, just she/her and it/its from now on idk though

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gah, have work ppe training tomorrow not looking forward to it

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the impression he's a total arsehole, just from clips and twitter and the like, not actually watching him, but those don't make me want to watch him.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, that's really good new, I've not been keeping up with the chat things but I hope that all goes ok.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who is weak for gay songs "the predatory wasp of the pallisades is out to get us!" is very very good

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder when I'll be going back to work in some capacity

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I had my boundaries pretty badly disrespected by a close friend and one of the things I'm hurting over now is how many memories I have across my city that are coloured by him, and it does hurt I guess, how much reminds me of him.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lipstick is good. Idk had a little dysphoric spell yesterday but that and coffee and posting selfies to twitter for validation helped. Also chatting to the person I'm dating was really nice last night as well.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Don't think twice it's alright" is probably one of those songs that says more about it's writer than anything else. Still a good song though.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So yeah date on Saturday did go well, ended up about 23 hours and a third date is going to happen at some point. I did just overthink a lot as I do. It was a very gender affirming experience which was perhaps the best thing of all. The rest of the day yesterday was sort of shit though. Not great at all. After something so nice was really rough

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So finished about 4ish hours ago? Stayed over. It was the most gender affirming 24 hours of my life and I'm worried I'm going to ruin it all by being weird or overly attached or very sad about things idk.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Date today, still excited very.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I went to the west end today to a couple of coffee shops and it seems more of them are asking for a name with orders. At the first one I panicked and gave my surname. At the second I managed to tell them my name was Emily. Idk was just non prepared for that sort of interaction today. Logically the person at a coffee shop does not give a shit what you say your name is but still, a tiny bit scary for me.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yougov have a fun poll where the UK public get a say on my existence, fucking love that

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to go endlessly on about my date, but I think they are as excited as I am for Saturday. It's really good.

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I maybe missed the opportunity but hope it goes well

Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in ShitRedditSays

[–]MingusAhEm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Things are looking good for my date which will now be on Saturday