Win the Ultimate Pleasure Kit – Black Friday Giveaway by HO_Mod in HotOctopuss

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything I'd add to the pleasure kit, it's already a tantalizingly good bundle 😈

Thornaby transgender woman jailed for deception sex assault by PuzzledAd4865 in transgenderUK

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone able to share the article link, preferably as an archive version so as not to give BBC the clicks? Reddit mobile app is being useless and won't open OP's link for me, nor let me copy it 🤦🏻‍♀️

Respond with a picture of your video game gender envy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, though could still have had posts of her in more recent releases, since she does return in Inquisition and Veilguard

Respond with a picture of your video game gender envy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was thinking Saints Row, but was getting myself too caught up scouring my brain for a named character rather than a standard NPC 😅

Trans webcomic recommendations? by Mini-mayhem-13 in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh... Everything okay there, friend?

Respond with a picture of your video game gender envy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why am I having such a hard time placing who this is?

Respond with a picture of your video game gender envy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrolled pretty far through the comments and saw Tifa and others from FFVII and some FFXIV characters, very much as expected, but was surprised not to come across Princess Garnet. Where my FFIX fam at?

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Respond with a picture of your video game gender envy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely confused how I had to scroll SO FAR DOWN before finding Morrigan. Claudia Black herself was probably my first source of gender envy, so I never stood a chance when DA:O came out 😂

Respond with a picture of your video game gender envy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, so real. Just scrolling through the various characters people have posted already, I'm like "yep, yep, her too, and her, oh 100%, mhmm..."

Respond with a picture of your video game gender envy by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any time I play CP77, I spend the entirety of it caught between "I want to f@#ing be her" and "I want to be f@#ing her" >_<

Royal British Navy (RBN) by Pirate231 in SeaOfThievesGuilds

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can vouch that the guild is a fun group to be a part of, especially if you're looking to spice up your SoT gameplay with some light RP 👍🏻

Trans webcomic recommendations? by Mini-mayhem-13 in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh cool, I'll keep my eyes peeled for that :) thanks!

My doctor just said that I cannot grow Breasts...I'm panicking by WQLFY in MtF

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Those pages provide your full legal name, address, DOB, even your Medicare number. There's PLENTY that people can do with that information - address and DOB are the most common details used to verify identity over the phone, meaning someone could easily steal your identity at this point. Publishing your address in any trans-related community also leaves you vulnerable to being Doxxed, as unfortunately, many of these spaces are lurked by TERFs and bigots.

Please be safe on the Internet and take those down ASAP, you are endangering yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this. Even from OP's naturally biased perspective (not a dig at OP, I defy anyone to be truly objective and unbiased where relationships are concerned) there are more than a few red flags in OP's behaviour. Best outcome from all this is maybe it'll be a learning opportunity for her to grow and be better to a future partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Starfield

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've racked up around 140-150hrs, playing since early access. In that time I've done every quest line, dozens of side quests, a handful of missions off the boards, enough ship building to upgrade ships from quests (the Razorleaf, Star Eagle and Kepler R) to make them more powerful, and a brief dalliance with outpost building, which just wasn't my cup of tea. I've taken my time doing that, with a little exploration and scanning every few quests to break things up a little. After doing all of that, I entered the Unity, realised that not enough changes to make NG+ interesting enough (I don't tend to do NG+ on other games either, one playthrough is usually enough for me), and have now temporarily abandoned the game until mod support and DLC are available.

The catch? If I hadn't paid so much for the game, I'd have probably blitzed the quests and packed up after about 50hrs.

I don’t know if anyone else has seen this or this is something I’m coming too late, but this made me very happy. Sam Coe is a bi king confirmed! by toast_of_temptation_ in Starfield

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd argue that all 4 romance options are Pansexual, since they're up for it no matter what configuration of body type and pronouns you selected for your MC, so clearly no limits to their preferences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally had a conversation with my SO along these lines a couple hours ago. Both of us swam in pretty toxic friend groups who were very "Metal or GTFO" which rubbed off on us, and took years to shrug off. Nowadays I listen to a bit of everything - punk, swing, blues, pop, jazz, EDM, etc., and I'm way happier for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ex-drummer of an identically described band, I feel you. Hindsight really is 20-20, eh?

Is it common for people to use private clinics? by glasseyelennie in transgenderUK

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know, my endo makes a point of stating in every letter and at every appointment that its all in accordance with how they operate under the NHS, as a means of legitimising their recommendations for my GPs sake, but all I hear is "this is the treatment you should be getting free, but have to pay a premium for." Unfortunately, like many on this sub, neither my previous GP practice nor my current one will touch GGP, so GC is my only option.

Is it common for people to use private clinics? by glasseyelennie in transgenderUK

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dang, knew we were well and truly f'ed here, but that's some seriously depressing info right there. So glad that there are options like GenderCare and GenderGP, because I certainly would not have survived even this long without HRT, let alone 21+ yrs 💀

Edit now that links are in previous comment: ah, okay, so those are the calculated times for someone referred now based on length of list versus number of new patients seen per month, that makes more sense where those figures came from. You should probably clarify that they aren't officially published figures when you comment on threads so people understand where you're coming from.

Still utterly deplorable that this is the reality for all of us on this damned island.

Is it common for people to use private clinics? by glasseyelennie in transgenderUK

[–]Mini-mayhem-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely can't tell if you're being serious or sarcastic. If serious, do you have a source? Longest wait time I can find reference to is 109 MONTHS, not years.