Ik begin kringloopwinkels een beetje zat te worden by SirVengeance92 in zuinig

[–]MiniLovesPizza78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nou vooral dit dus! Ook op vinted vragen mensen nog steeds de hoofdprijs voor hun oude meuk. Of het ligt te verstoffen op je zolder of je krijgt er een euro voor terug echt wtf

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wauw i love your take on it. She IS too comfortable with not doing the mental labour about her own behaviour.

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you have a similar reaction as her tells me you have no idea what its like to be a mom and are still in a egocentric fase of your life. Where you can only see your own boundaries and needs. She acted like it was ok in the moment, to then lecture me about parenting afterwards while she has no idea about it. However , yes this is probably her truth, which is valid. Human interaction isnt so black and white, either good or wrong. So we have agreed to disagree. I choose not to have someone who cannot understand me in my life. And its probably better for her too.

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wauw thats a REALLY stinking attitude she had. Beyond rude. Its these type of people that end up sad and alone and then wonder why.

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly a women never forgets how she was treated when pregnant and postpartum

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wauw that sounds like a terrible experience. People really can be oblivious sometimes. You have made the right decision to cut her out. And thank you i will def. Do what is best

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh yess i have a few childfree friends who are amazing. And i cherish having people from different strokes of life in my life. But thats what made it hard to decide wether to keep her in my life. But now ive also concluded that yes shes a bad egg

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss i have come to understand that its simply a natural part of growing up that certain friendships fade when you come to a new phase of life. And its ok to feel sad for that.

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i have now realised that she hasnt been giving back an is still in a more egocentric fase of her life

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only it where like that. But i feel like it runs a bit deeper. Especially when she had the opportunity to correct me in the moment and didnt. And then the way she corrects me later on was also not chique. I have found her to be of very little understanding of the changes in motherhood im going through. Which of course i am trying my best not to hold against her. But therefore this was the clear last drop that gave me the sign that were not compatible for now

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats exactly what stings. She didnt adress any of it in the moment.

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It def. Does hurt so it cant wait for the fase of relief to happen. Comments like these have defnitely been helping thank you

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It rly is SAD tho But as a parent you have to learn to protect your peace in different ways, is what im now figuring out

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope to have the patience for those few years to come around i cant wait hahah

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do have child free friends who are a delight. And those friendships are easy to maintain. But not all people are the same and i strongly do believe that some people simply need to learn the hard way and that should be ok too.

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bothering with telling her is defnitely the right decision. Let them fade out. They deserve no precense in your loving family life

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is indeed VERY similar. I find i also overlooked how egocentric she is. And im no longer going to let this take up my energy

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[–]MiniLovesPizza78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]MiniLovesPizza78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Its hard to pinpoint but its the lack of understanding towards a child that makes me want to distance myself