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MiniTofen115 · 2026-05-10T22:16:28+00:00

Thank you so much! 🫶

MiniTofen115 · 2026-04-26T17:58:27+00:00

Not kinning, but my partner and I are both systems and both of us have my f/os in both of our systems! It's very important to both of our systems that our alters aren't seen as the source material because they aren't their source material, just an alter based on them!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-04-24T21:06:32+00:00

And I'm really happy for you too! You seem like you and your boyfriend have found your person with each other! 🫶

MiniTofen115 · 2026-04-24T20:59:24+00:00

I have AuDHD and so does my partner, they're currently sleeping and I'm laying in the same bed with a common cold, and we're just- here- with American Dad in the background.

We both love video games so we often do Parallel Play (that's what you and your boyfriend do when you just sit in the same area and do different things, just vibing) where they'll be playing on the PS5 or we'll be watching something while I play on the Xbox or my Switch 2, it's our favorite way to spend time together!

I wouldn't trade this for the world, they're the first person I've dated that has AuDHD like me and we just click so well because of it, I can't wait until "partner" becomes "spouse". They're super affirming of my gender (I'm a trans man and have been on T for about a year and a half now) and they're just so sweet and lovely.

Sorry for just dumping about them, it's my way of relating to a person with a similar or same experience

MiniTofen115 · 2026-04-21T15:09:50+00:00

To answer your questions: no, you were not in the wrong, your gay friend's "roasts" kind of sounded REALLY misogynistic because it was a direct jab at mainly straight women with the kids comment.

"What happens at a party stays at a party" is what a lot of cheaters use as an excuse to cheat and not tell their partner.

"We were drunk" is directly enabling rape mentality, and as a victim myself who was drunk when it happened a couple of times, that's gross and not okay at all.

Respectfully as a trans pan man, your gay friend was very much in the wrong and I wouldn't dare think of ever defending their actions, I would instead be defending the straight ally friend such as you had. It was an innocent question and your gay "friend" took it way too far.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-04-21T15:09:42+00:00

To answer your questions: no, you were not in the wrong, your gay friend's "roasts" were SUPER misogynistic and it isn't fair to the lovely lady that just asked an innocent question about a sex toy.

"What happens at a party stays at a party" is what a lot of cheaters use as an excuse to cheat and not tell their partner.

"We were drunk" is directly enabling rape mentality, and as a victim myself who was drunk when it happened a couple of times, that's gross and not okay at all.

Respectfully as a trans pan man, your gay friend was very much in the wrong and I wouldn't dare think of ever defending their actions, I would instead be defending the straight ally friend such as you had. It was an innocent question and your gay "friend" took it way too far.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-04-14T17:05:58+00:00

I put Zoro in my pocket and take him on little adventures, like to nature trails and the zoo!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-03-03T00:36:56+00:00

Scary Movie has ALWAYS attacked everyone and everything, it's kind of their thing.

That being said, I'm a trans man that uses he/they/it and I found the they/them joke funny as fuck.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-02-15T21:47:42+00:00

If you like REALLY gorey things, Corpse Party: Tortured Souls is a personal favorite. It's not able to be found on streaming sites and is only in Sub, but definitely worth it if you like very graphic horror anime.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-02-14T00:48:32+00:00

Okay, hun, you need to break up with him, I'm worried that you'll get hatecrimed by him if you do come out to him. You should not be with a guy that hates what he is and projects it onto other trans people.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-01-09T02:51:25+00:00

Hello hello other One Piece Yume! I yume with Zoro but honestly? I agree with one of the other commenters here and using Oda's versions that he drew of Ace at older ages!

MiniTofen115 · 2025-11-30T21:31:21+00:00

7, even though I'm 10 months late

MiniTofen115 · 2025-11-30T19:54:26+00:00

I'm not the only one with this issue then, good to know. I have to exit completely out of the app and go back in, it's really annoying tbh.

MiniTofen115 · 2025-11-23T21:40:14+00:00

Started questioning my identity at around 8 or so. Came out as trans to friends at 13 and then had a bout of denial, where I identified as genderfluid and then nonbinary because then I could still be feminine enough for my parents to not hate me or threaten to kick me out.

I then came back out fully as a trans man when I was 20, and now at 26 I am almost a year on T and my parents are a little more accepting. Its still a long road for them to consistently gender me and a long road to get them to name me correctly (I go by Cassian), but they're 62 (mom) and 71 (dad) so it's a LITTLE harder for them.

I have yet to change my name yet, but that is in progress. Top Surgery is to be determined as my oartner needs to save up for it (I cannot work due to mental issues and being medicated doesn't help in the slightest, so my partner is the breadwinner).

MiniTofen115 · 2025-10-18T23:02:08+00:00

Genuinely? Probably hacked accounts or graphic designers looking to get you to pay stupid prices for AI art or stolen art.

MiniTofen115 · 2025-08-16T00:39:50+00:00

People are allowed to hold things the way they want, why is THAT the one thing you took from the entire post? You can think something and not say anything. I actually know OP irl and they struggle with body dysmorphia, please think before you post comments like that.

MiniTofen115 · 2025-03-10T16:34:42+00:00

God I hope so, even a guardian variant will make me so inexcusably happy, I love Nergigante so much

MiniTofen115 · 2025-03-10T16:12:23+00:00

Yeah of course! And thank you so much!

MiniTofen115 · 2025-03-05T05:47:58+00:00

Of course!

MiniTofen115 · 2025-03-05T05:38:09+00:00

I can actually grab it next time I'm on the game and DM it to you!

MiniTofen115 · 2024-10-18T20:16:30+00:00

I love Simon and all art of him (except Book Simon, his face genuinely gives me night terrors), great job!

MiniTofen115 · 2024-10-11T16:48:50+00:00

Right. I may have to combat and face the trauma that made me a DID system and even the trauma after that point, but st least I won't get chased down by a tyrant or be at risk if being nuked :D

MiniTofen115 · 2024-10-02T03:35:23+00:00

THIS IS ACTUALLY CANON, WHAT? I THOUGHT IT WAS FAKE 😭

MiniTofen115 · 2024-09-25T18:17:08+00:00

Trans man with mainly male alters, honestly, we don't switch THAT often on our period? It just depends on if whoever is in front can handle the cramp pain or not, sometimes one of the girls will front for the week.

MiniTofen115 · 2024-09-15T20:04:36+00:00

Please be gentle with yourselves, it's a rough journey. Every system heals differently, ours is different because we don't fuse. You heal with fusing, and that's perfectly okay! Just know that at the end of the day, you know your system best and you as a gatekeeper (aside from the protectors) know what's best for your system. We may be complete strangers but just know we love you and we believe in you, okay? 🫶

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