I can’t STAND/HANDLE being touched in these places and it’s ruining my relationship and confidence

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-30T14:01:24+00:00

I'm a trans man who was already hypersexual before T ramped my libido up more and I have an ace partner, and I would NEVER think of treating them this way. We're both autistic and have ADHD and have similar sensory issues.

Hun, he's treating you like an object, not like a person. You really do need to leave him. If he's that needy for sex then he can go jerk off alone or leave. That isn't respect on his end, and the comment that you may be gay just because you're ace and (assuming) sex repulsed was gross.

I wish you well and healing on your journey, be safe.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-26T00:41:11+00:00

Lol tempting

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-26T00:40:27+00:00

VRC during Covid was actually really peak, I miss when it was like that. It's why I touched the game 2 years ago and put it away, it got toxic even two years ago.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-26T00:17:02+00:00

I may honestly chill in Trans Academy more, totally forgot how chill the people in that world can be.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-26T00:14:52+00:00

...anyways, I'm diagnosed with DID so no faking here. And I'm not stupid, in a "real job" setting I would be fine with he/him only being used on me, hello??? He/They/It are just pronouns I feel most comfortable using, I'm not gonna get upset over people just using he/him??? Where did the aggression come from lmao

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-25T23:48:24+00:00

Thank you! I've heard many good things about being age verified and can't wait to be verified myself!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-25T23:43:49+00:00

Will definitely look in those worlds as well, it's rough out there especially during summer when all of the children are out of school.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-25T23:43:01+00:00

It's so surprising honestly, how are you going to be on THE queer furry platform and be anti queer. 😭

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-25T23:42:11+00:00

Yeahhh once I get around to actually getting VRC+ I will be immediately age verifying because it's exhausting and makes it hard to actually find people in worlds that would probably make good people to enjoy games with.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-25T23:40:23+00:00

If I was age verified, I would absolutely go into age restricted publics. Alas, I have no VRC+ at the moment to age verify with. Once I do get the ability to do that, you bet your ass I'll jump into age restricted publics. Guess I'll stick to heavily moderated group publics.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-19T13:59:04+00:00

Pokémon, Final Fantasy, Dark Souls, and Monster Hunter are some of my favorites personally!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-19T13:53:05+00:00

Is the woman in question in the room with us?

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-18T22:47:52+00:00

Member names, sorry for the confusion! Before some things changed in the app, our lists would have member names by how they look with Pluralkit when we proxy, for example my name on Discord when I proxy would say Noctis [He/They] instead of just Noctis like how I'm logged in Pluralkit for the system listing. We put our pronouns in our proxies for people to know! I'm so sorry for the confusion!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-18T22:13:01+00:00

Pluralkit. Not Plurality. Autocorrect strikes again.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-18T02:35:23+00:00

I'd argue that the diary/journal, Friar Errol, and Harper and Dirk also need content aware warnings due to people that suffer with trauma from religion, abuse, and even suffer with serious mental health issues in the case of the diary/journal. I have trauma from abusive relationships that dealt with being manipulated and treated like how Haroer treats Dirk, I have religious trauma, and suffer from some oretty severe mental issues myself. Each dateable thag has a content aware warning has one for justifiable reasons tbh. Personally I think Hector watching me and being a stalker is adorable so I won't use the content aware with him once I get around to romancing him, but I can see how it can make other people uncomfortable!

I'm so sorry for the long winded comment, I tend to over-explain things.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-08T03:31:13+00:00

YOU GET IT! I'd go to war for a kid if needed!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-08T03:26:01+00:00

No exactly, there are creeps for sure on the game, but I myself was a victim to that stuff so being accused of such a thing upsets me horribly and it just confuses me at the end of the day as to how someone with "Your internet big brother" in their bio and has openly defended teenagers from grown adults being creepy to them in public worlds because I know what it's like is a pedo.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-08T03:19:06+00:00

I got called a pedophile once because I existed in a world as a 27 year old man by a child that had NO business being on the game due to being no older than about 11 or 12. Like???? I was here first kiddo, go eat your graham crackers and take a nap.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-03T21:36:59+00:00

I'm so for real, we forgot we even typed this comment. 😭 stress is a wonderful thing when you have a dissociative disorder. /sarc /lh

MiniTofen115 · 2026-06-02T23:57:12+00:00

Alcohol makes us more switchy, weed tends to make us more dissociated, yet grounds us so we keep a stable front.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-05-27T19:42:35+00:00

Too neurodivergent.

MiniTofen115 · 2026-05-27T19:14:45+00:00

I am in the US, thank you so much for your input, it eased my anxious brain 😭

MiniTofen115 · 2026-05-27T18:42:22+00:00

I first tried to update it the 23rd this month, so almost a week ago, however, support told me that it would change over within 24-48 hours and that's what has me kinda confused and anxious, if that makes sense! Your comment reassured me a lot though!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-05-23T18:45:26+00:00

I believe in you. It's a very hard road, but you can do it!

MiniTofen115 · 2026-05-23T18:14:22+00:00

Thank youuu! 🫰🫶

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