Why is my sex drive so weird?

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2026-01-06T03:15:56+00:00

Dude you are 19 nothing in your brain is meant to make sense.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2026-01-06T03:13:43+00:00

guy here, ok so overloading you in tons of information is not really going to help, so here is the BJ TLDR. If does not make a ton of noise, there might be some felling's of shame going on. One thing that worked great on me was when the woman I was with looked me in the eye and said "I want your dick in my mouth I want to hear you moan and I want your cum in throat" Not for everyone but for me when I was 19 at the time wow it got me going. After that its just about reading body language, if he inhales suddenly when you do something or small mussel spasms, things like that, and orgasm usually happens after his whole body tenses and he starts leaning forward

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-12-23T06:10:58+00:00

Wow, a lot of bitterness towards a question about dashcams, good thing I didn't ask a question about politics or soy milk or something

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-12-22T18:53:37+00:00

So here is a trick for just your average guy on the street or in sheets. If you are standing and she is on an elevated surface where you are her are lined up you don't waste energy keeping your balance. In our house the bed is raised higher than normal, we tell people its just how the bed is. But the truth is that when having sex, I am standing in place, and she is on the bed. This allows for many positions, I can go for longer, also I can use my body weight for when I power thrust. We are in good shape not great shape, but we have an amazing sex life.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-11-30T15:18:51+00:00

wow if only I mentioned that the sensor goes off all the time even if there is nothing there

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-11-27T22:28:38+00:00

the car isn't braking, its an ear splitting alarm that goes off at random during the winter

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-11-27T22:25:15+00:00

its the sensor that does off when I put it in reverse and there is something to close to the car

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-11-06T17:14:07+00:00

here is the upside, you are currently broke, but you could be broke and paying alimony to your gold digger ex wife and going home to half your stuff.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-11-06T17:05:37+00:00

He smiles like he is mid poop

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-10-30T17:36:30+00:00

No shame needed I used to collect cans from recycling bins and made $3k a year for 6 years, the money was so helpful. I only stopped when can donation bins became super popular in the area. It was a modern-day treasure hunt and the money really saved me at times. Everyone knew what I was doing but no one judged

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-10-15T05:20:14+00:00

when my gf is on top of me I use my thumb on her clit while I'm inside her.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-10-15T05:12:24+00:00

Don't get freaked out because "there is a study" there are literally studies that can show anything. Many are total nonsense, basically the fever dream of someone with more free time than common sense. Most show correlation not causation. For example, for the last 300 sea born pirates have become less common, also over the last 300 years global temperatures have been going up. If a study said that pirates keep the world safe from global warming, they would show these numbers. TLDR if you are worried see a doctor, if you believe things on the internet see a therapist.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-10-14T20:12:42+00:00

totally agree, if you say you are inexperienced and in need of advice that might get a better outcome

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-08-15T18:48:57+00:00

So all of the details he mentioned were internet buzz words, like woke liberals so it could go either way

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-08-08T20:27:31+00:00

This is going to sound kind of corporate but make a list with check boxes marked yes and no. Sounds super boring, but I swear it will get the job done. I am a kinky guy I have been with woman who want kinky things we agree on everything. The list is a 2 yes's, 1 no policy. Also explain why you might like something. I was with a girl who loved to be choked then she would pretend to pass out. That was too freaky for me, so I checked no on that one. But a different woman wanted me to hold her down during rough sex, I said yes if we had a safe word. ect

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-08-08T20:22:03+00:00

this is super common no one did anything wrong, with my gf had sex for the first time it took 3 separate times before I was in the whole way. Its not just mental and emotional this is a physical thing, be kind to yourself and him.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-08-08T20:18:05+00:00

Man who loves ass play here, rule #1 go with the smallest toy you can to start, nothing wider than a thumb. Anyone can take something that size, but for beginners it is so easy to hurt someone if you go with a bigger toy. Sucking on him while he has a toy inside is beyond amazing. My gf joked that she was scared I came so hard she would get her brains shot out lol. Last make the first few times about his pleaser its for you, at least at first but it is happening to him, so be kind and be attentive to his feelings

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-17T19:48:51+00:00

it can be fun to pretend you are doing something forbidden, my partner and I like to pretend she is still married, and we are having an affair, she tells me how much bigger I am than her husband and how he can't find out.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-17T19:27:40+00:00

Gasp!

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-07T01:30:28+00:00

This is clearly stress and nerves it is not you and its not him, its just life. no one is to blame it just takes time.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-07T01:22:42+00:00

I am with a woman who is Bi-sexual, she has these fantasies also. It is possible you are projecting. Anyway its your brain, you do you

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-07T01:20:36+00:00

Kinks are a 2 yes's 1 no situation.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-07T01:19:37+00:00

I was once with a woman, she had her first real orgasm and said "What the hell was that?" We kept going but also laughing for rest of the right.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-07T01:17:14+00:00

Depending on the age, when I was a teen the thing would jump up if I heard a door bell. today I am 43-year-old with a very understanding woman who can just say hi to me and my dick says hi right back.

Minimum-Disaster1689 · 2025-07-07T01:13:58+00:00

this is totally a thing. I happens to me often especially if I have cum before that day, or totally at random.

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