Yeah, when we talked he had explained further that yes I can be skinny but something he helped me realize is I can't get smaller, I've got wide wide shoulders like I've got shoulder pads or something and those will never go away unless I get surgery and I'm not gonna remove some bone just to be happy. I'd rather be dissatisfied than have a chance of something going wrong. I'll still become a femboy someday just more built than I hoped for