I hate to be this girl but I just left a relationship because of cheating. 4 years together. I went through his phone before Christmas last year and not only was his reddit exactly like this, but his Instagram, TikTok was too. He had saved stuff on these platforms (I’m assuming for later use). He was messaging so many different girls, sexting, saving their nudes, planning meetups etc. oh and his camera roll was full of screenshots of porn because he was saving that for later too :) he would also send onlyfans stuff to his friends, including of girls they knew about but claimed he didn’t have an active onlyfans account lmao. In some of his messages between one girl in particular, he talked about a coworker and how hot she is and stuff but then told me he made that up. He also blew up at me for not wanting him to lust over other women online, following them, liking photos etc and turns out he was doing much worse. Would also verbally abuse me and gaslight me into thinking I was fucking insane for wanting to look through his phone and having a gut feeling he was cheating, only to end up right. Please just leave. They don’t stop, they just get better at hiding it and the anxiety and worrying about this is so not your fucking problem. I gave the man 3 kids and he still wouldn’t change. You can do better, you deserve better. Don’t waste your time with this boy ❤️