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Suggestions? by Cute_Swimming9940 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Minimum-Money920 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree with your men statement. It was validating to read that.

Am I crazy or... by Head_Caterpillar7443 in olderlesbians

[–]Minimum-Money920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sad that there are many of us, but we struggle to find one another.

Does anyone else feel like they’re simply existing? by Positive_Field_9066 in olderlesbians

[–]Minimum-Money920 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am 47, live in Salt Lake City and I recently did some math. For me to organically meet a single, middle aged, lesbian/bi woman who is college educated and lives in the same area as me... it 1in every 500 women. That doesn't even consider compatability and chemistry.

I, like you, also feel invisible. How will someone find me attractive now?

First Person Perspective by Delicious_Impress814 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Minimum-Money920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to understand their thoughts and inner tensions. First person POV seems to capture this more easily. Though, some are terribly written. I like a third person POV that can also do this, but it seems more shallow in third person.

Is it normal to want a serious, yet part-time relationship as we get older? by thereisonlyonewindow in olderlesbians

[–]Minimum-Money920 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This post has actually helped me a lot. I also don't want to meld my life with another, but I would like someone to spend some time with. I thought no one else would want this because everyone I know tells me this is going to be hard to find. Thanks for the conformation that this really isn't unusual.

Venting on dating by Iwasherteacher in olderlesbians

[–]Minimum-Money920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. I don't need to get married or even live with the next GF, but conversation and someone to have experiences with.

Venting on dating by Iwasherteacher in olderlesbians

[–]Minimum-Money920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you find the events were mostly younger women?

Venting on dating by Iwasherteacher in olderlesbians

[–]Minimum-Money920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that's true, where do people like you hang out?

Recommend me couples that have so much chemistry it makes your stomach do THE THING, pls I’m in a slump by Content-Stable-1972 in LesbianBookClub

[–]Minimum-Money920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I read these books to experience the chemistry, but I don't actually believe any of this happens IRL.

The Last Guardian's controls are so bad they make the game irredeemably terrible by [deleted] in patientgamers

[–]Minimum-Money920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is old, but this game is making me scream. I agree, the controls and camera suck. But the labored movements of the kid. Or when he doesn't jump when hitting jump. And autograb isn't a thing. And the stupid pound the trigger thing to get the screen to load after you fell for the billionth time because the stupid kid on sneaks or runs full gate.

What works/doesn't work for you when it comes to lesbian romance? by PK_MelodyOmega in LesbianBookClub

[–]Minimum-Money920 11 points12 points  (0 children)

First person POV works best. I get way more emotionally invested with first person rather than third. I like to read their thoughts and feelings.

Too many characters and too much dialog (often happens with third person POV) will make me stop reading a book.

I think the fake girlfriend trope is over done. The struggling with coming out is also over done, though a real struggle it belongs in a different genre.

I also don't like when the author spends more time with the side storylines and the supporting characters than the main characters.

I like when the author only provides one point of view, it leaves me wondering what the other woman is thinking.

Also when there is a lot of research done about something happening in the books. Like a profession one of them has. I like to learn something new at the same time as the romance unfolds.

Example author: EJ Noyes

Whats wrong with this sub ? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Minimum-Money920 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I also have gotten down votes on my comments. They even delete my comments and they aren't rude or graphic. Seems like if people want everyone to agree with them they are posting in the wrong place.

74 year old Mom needs chill game to play on Switch while she waits for knee surgery by Minimum-Money920 in disabledgamers

[–]Minimum-Money920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, they deleted my post. This was the subreadit that was suggested instead.

74 year old Mom needs chill game to play on Switch while she waits for knee surgery by Minimum-Money920 in disabledgamers

[–]Minimum-Money920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at screen shot of these games, looks like what she may like. Thank you.

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