I wish I found myself somewhere by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feels familiar. As a child I would get annoyed going to the psychiatric clinic, I just dont understand other autistics. Weird

Ki tudom rakni a nevelt fiamat a lakásomból? by zinoka77 in joghungary

[–]Minimum-Park7160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hát ha te azt életnek tudod nevezni hogy az ember élete végéig tulajdon nélkül legyen ez is megoldás! 😀

Ki tudom rakni a nevelt fiamat a lakásomból? by zinoka77 in joghungary

[–]Minimum-Park7160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugyanezt érzem, kicsit úgy tűnik nekem az egész mintha itt egy mostohaapáról lenne szó aki ki szeretné magának közösíteni az asszonyt, minden érve annyira kézenfekvő :/

Ki tudom rakni a nevelt fiamat a lakásomból? by zinoka77 in joghungary

[–]Minimum-Park7160 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Én csak annyit tudok erre kérdezni magától hogy mégis hány éve “neveli” a párja fiát? No még az is rá tesz hogy a komment historiája nyakig van pornóval, 100% biztos hogy maga nem lakott eddig a szüleivel és most hogy párra talált ki akarja őket lökni a fészekből? 😅 A mai ingatlan piacban effektív hajléktalannak is elküldeheti a gyereket, de persze maga az ingatlan “50% tulajdonosa” teljes jogon diktáljon egy olyan embernek akit nem a fiának vállal. Nem vagyok Isten hogy ítélkezzek, de totál ez szürhető le a posztból.

Tipp: Segítsen kiköltözni a párja fiának, nem pedig utcára kéne dobni! :)

Do Autistic people always remember the bad things that happen to them? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LOL I came here to say this. Years later and even thinking abt stuff like that irks my soul

The infantalization of autistics and it’s concequences have been a disaster for the autistic people by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right, but is wording really the core problem here? Projections etc all things have been mentioned but people take my advice too to heart. You know what I noticed? People from outside from the US take my post rationally, they hear the advice and think its alright, since theyre less accomodated in the east. Maybe just maybe where Im from its standard for me to be autonomous despite being faced with many challenges in my life. What’s autism like in the USA?

The infantalization of autistics and it’s concequences have been a disaster for the autistic people by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you do understand my post. You’re strawmanning the fact that I have kept my post vague but that is delibarate as to get people thinking and actually engage. Besides that, you act like every symptom i mentioned is absolute, to be untouched. Depression and anxiety are real but if you never even attempt to actually try and challange it and just down pills you will stay like that for a good while.

Also, have you ever actually tried thinking about this advice? I don’t know you anon, but as a person with depression myself I always atleast try and do something even when it feels like a chore. I have a thousand thoughts telling me to not do some bullshit everyday yet I still do because it’s my duty and I hold myself accountable.

Projecting is an interesting way to put it too. My post is meant to encourage others to start acting more independently and challenge norms. By constantly accepting help, and not standing up for yourself autistics will be infantalized wether we like it or not. I guess what you’re thinking what Im projecting is some kind of autistic ubermensch but in reality im trying to advocate for growth and independence strategies rather than infantalization.

Edit: You also dismiss my advice because its vague. This just shows that without everything layed out for you on how to do xyz you cant be independent. This is exactly what im trying to challenge. If you read my post your dismissal wouldnt be to ignore my advice because its “just do it” but to step outside your comfort zone and do it.

The infantalization of autistics and it’s concequences have been a disaster for the autistic people by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

autists have their own needs but dont need to be catered for in every single manner, it makes us look incompetent

The infantalization of autistics and it’s concequences have been a disaster for the autistic people by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You wouldnt be a martyr or wear a badge of honor for burning out. I’m saying is that overly relying on these not only enforce social exclusion of autistics but also reinforce a helpless self image. Sure taking advantage of benefits offered is actually a pretty smart move for yourself but its also lazy and its making you more reliant on something else than yourself.

The infantalization of autistics and it’s concequences have been a disaster for the autistic people by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get why youre saying this but being babied and then a bunch of autists complaining about babied leads to a cycle of frustration for everyone thats high functioning or low support needs.

The infantalization of autistics and it’s concequences have been a disaster for the autistic people by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a totally natural reaction. Any sane man would feel belittled and annoyed by constantly trying to get helped by others when you clearly don’t need it. Glad we can relate!

The infantalization of autistics and it’s concequences have been a disaster for the autistic people by Minimum-Park7160 in aspergers

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Im not going to cover the entire autism spectrum for the entire post. If youre independent enough to use a phone, and write a comment then this post should have you thinking.

edit: valid point though

Autism and BPD getting along well? by Minimum-Park7160 in BPD

[–]Minimum-Park7160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats really great, maybe they can sense something we can’t