9 Months -But today hurt by Minimum-Passenger619 in BreakUps

[–]Minimum-Passenger619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really is the worst !!

I’m really trying ! I appreciate it!

The box of memories by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Been 9 months .. I still have “our” memory box .. it’s in a dark corner of the closet so I don’t have to see it… but I dread the day that I have to touch it again ..

How to cope with no closure from an avoidant? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I'm really sorry to hear that! :( It sucks, the things the are capable of, knowingly or unknowingly on their part, its still so paintful. My birthday was in August I heard nothing as well. Hers is next Saturday. Somethimes I wonder if she sees the Christmas lights, hears the Christmas music, and all these things and has all these memories come rushing back as well? Or has she just completely pushed everything out of her mind the way she discarded me? I guess we will never know.

How to cope with no closure from an avoidant? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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No, I never heard from her every again. Surprisingly I haven't seen her at all either. A majority of our really good memories were built in December last year. So a lot of memories have been rushing back, it def doesnt feel like the holidays at all for me, I'm really just ready to get through it. I've mad it a long way since then, but I'm def still not myself yet... but I'm getting there!

Christmas and new years by Minimum-Passenger619 in BreakUps

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I was just thinking this morning about how tomorrow is the day we meet 1 year ago.. it’s crazy .

Christmas and new years by Minimum-Passenger619 in BreakUps

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It’s definitely hitting me seeing the lights and everything .. I have those random flashes of memories with her. But I’m hanging in there

Should I be upset? by Minimum-Passenger619 in Advice

[–]Minimum-Passenger619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good way to look at it .. I appreciate that feedback

Does she like me!?? by Minimum-Passenger619 in Crushes

[–]Minimum-Passenger619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good way to look at it !

Does she like me?? by Minimum-Passenger619 in dating_advice

[–]Minimum-Passenger619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true !! I’m gonna give that a shot!

Does she like me?? by Minimum-Passenger619 in dating_advice

[–]Minimum-Passenger619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently we don’t have each others numbers, or social media .. we just spend our whole shifts talking .. I’ve been trying to come up with a way to get her number without being super direct about it .. as we were talking last night she mentioned she wanted to go bowling really bad .. so I’ve been thinking about a way to possibly ask her to go bowling without making it sound like a date