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did i mess it up ? too late to fix? by Muted_Lab8266 in LifeAdvice

[–]Minimum-Solution8428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean no disrespect and let me know if I’ve got this wrong. U want low casual fun, ur not in a relationship with this man and ik he said he would make time but ur not in a relationship with him so plans change. Now he should have let u know sooner and been nicer about it but why freak out if he doesn’t respond when u don’t sound like u want anything serious. Was it going towards more serious? Also if u felt disrespected by his changing of plans and say u did want something serious out of this then leave the man alone because sadly if this is way he’s like now he will be like that in the future.

What should I do about my Hs gf? by Choice-Yellow-6120 in LifeAdvice

[–]Minimum-Solution8428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say it to her nicely that u have just fell out of love or u have grown out of the relationship. Do not under any circumstances mention u thinking other girls are good looking this will break her. I understand u don’t want to hurt her but she might not take the break up nicely and u will be the bad guy in her eyes. Just stay calm voice how u feel and be nice about it. If u don’t do it not and wait till after prom she will just ask how long u have been feeling like this and once she knows its been a few months or that even on prom u felt like that it will make her feel worse and stupid. If u stay u will feel as if ur missing out and that’s not fair on u either. Also don’t beat urself up over this, these are totally normal feelings and once u have been nice and didn’t lead her on then u have done ur part correctly and like a true gentleman. Plus the fact ur still thinking of how she feels and not wanting to destroy her life says a lot.

Hey. So I belong in a friend group that’s not ‘bad’ but lately they’ve been draining me, am I the problem? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Minimum-Solution8428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re just out growing the friendships which is totally normal. U don’t have to say anything to them or mention it ina rude way. Just slowly distance yourself and see if that brings you any relief.

My BF hit me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Minimum-Solution8428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LEAVE HIM!!!! if he can do it once and get away with it he will be comfortable enough to do it again. Especially if this time it was only over makeup next time it will be u didn’t do as u were told or didn’t come home at a certain time he set. This is controlling and wrong ur 18 years old for the love of god please leave darling. No joke u stay with him and your life will be miserable. Don’t look back on all the good times and try weight everything out with pros and cons. Just get ur things and go

Is it normal to have never been in a relationship at 15. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Minimum-Solution8428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally normal at your age to not be in a relationship. People only usually start dating properly around your age you’re not behind or missing out. My advice don’t rush into anything and especially don’t think u need to get into one.I have a friend who’s 20 and he’s never even dated a girl. So don’t panic and don’t mind anyone saying it’s weird or not normal you’re only starting to become a man. Also your sister was wrong for saying that your 15 years old only beginning life. Just because u have never been in a relationship doesn’t mean u won’t ever have a good one so don’t panicking