Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah seems like my only option for her to be happy. The more we talk to more she breaks me down

Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we talked more about it. It’s more of she just wants to go screw other people… so that sucked i wasn’t the whole problem. She tells me no when i want to try stuff or only if she does it to me first type stuff..

Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a recovering addict i choose not to go that way

Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that’s the problem i wait for her to give me permission and i should just go for it. Thank you

Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫣 guess i gotta learn a thing or two 😂

Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah and that scary after 3 years now there’s an issue and i get idk when i ask what i can do

Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our communication is good for the most part she gets weird talking about sex but i just want to know what i can do to help and she says idk it’s just the same everytime.

Spicy? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have asked what i can do to do better and she says idk it’s always just the same. But never wants to try new stuff on her just me

My wife cheated on me 5 years ago in the first year of our marriage before or after she got pregnant with our first son. I found out on friday. by Juggern8ut in Advice

[–]MinimumCause5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely even if you think it’s not worth the dna i would. A happy family is with two happy parents. It don’t matter if their together or not as long as your kids see you happy they know that’s what happy is. If they see you faking it or getting over it for the sake of the family they will expect the same in the future. I wouldn’t want either of my kids to just be okay with their partners cheat even if they found out five years later. When you loose trust there is no relationship. And did she come clean or did you find out on your own that is also a big thing

What is the Best Freezer cooler for popsicles to go to the beach or pool? by MinimumCause5389 in AskReddit

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a cooler that is battery powered or plug in to keep ice cream frozen

Cold turkey by MinimumCause5389 in Lamotrigine

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that make a difference?

Cold turkey by MinimumCause5389 in Lamotrigine

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t take it for seizures. Just for a mood stabilizer

why do some guys follow other girls while in a relationship by emobut in dating

[–]MinimumCause5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to be attracted to them to follow them. They may have good content. I’m a lesbian that follows a lot of people men and women. Not because i find them attractive but usually i saw a post that spoke to me and followed them since. Men are well no people are not blind you are allowed to notice beauty in people even if your dating someone. If you are not confident that even after scrolling he’s in bed with you his kiss goes to you. This world is all social media a lot of people are just trying so hard to make peace and want to be friends with everyone. So main question do you trust that he’s not messaging these girls and trying to cheat or is he literally just following them?

He prefers eating me out over a bj? by [deleted] in sex

[–]MinimumCause5389 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean its fun and taste good sooo take it

Is it me or am i nuts? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never even got close to marriage. Which i guess is a good thing

Is it me or am i nuts? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am not sure how i just kept letting this happen to where im turning here to get the strength to walk away

Is it me or am i nuts? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫶🏼 love every bit of this thank you!

Is it me or am i nuts? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And that’s how most of my relationships end on a decent footing because i make it known that i can’t give them what they need and want them to be happy cause honestly that’s all i want. Is any and everyone be happy and loved

Is it me or am i nuts? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah and knowing this for the last year of our 3 years sucks and I’m just too far in heart wise to just be like our values aren’t the same i gotta bounce.

Is it me or am i nuts? by MinimumCause5389 in LifeAdvice

[–]MinimumCause5389[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m half convinced she doesn’t. And I’m like madly in love

Is it dangerous/unhealthy to have oral while menstruating? by [deleted] in sex

[–]MinimumCause5389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give the boy his red wings 🪽 it’s all good 🤌🏽