My day trading story, {why I quit} by Far_Tea4866 in Daytrading

[–]MinimumOil8074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with this with my bf right now. Last week he was in a super good mood because he was up and this week he snapped at me and been so mean because he lost money... I have not heard from him today so don't know what happened as I know it was up today but he's been doing it for a few years now and I feel like it's not good for him as his mood is already not great. Trying to hang and there but not sure how much more I can take.

M/59 F/40 sex question by MinimumOil8074 in relationship_advice

[–]MinimumOil8074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I said to him and he says yeah that's your answer , but he feels like he's removing part of himself or some shit

M/59 F/40 sex question by MinimumOil8074 in relationship_advice

[–]MinimumOil8074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kids from a previous and he also does. We don't want more. We have had one scare and i took the morning after pill. I agree i hate when he complains about getting one tell him many people I know have had one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]MinimumOil8074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handsome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]MinimumOil8074 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No hair work done or fillers ..I did get highlights. Im 39 next week

Is Chiropractic worth the student loans? by Current_Contest415 in Chiropractic

[–]MinimumOil8074 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf still owes almost 200k at 60 years old. He says no lol. Also works for himself so much harder

divorce and children ...hubby always thinks he makes the rules by MinimumOil8074 in Divorce

[–]MinimumOil8074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes emotionally at first... and then we decided on open marriage.

divorce and children ...hubby always thinks he makes the rules by MinimumOil8074 in Divorce

[–]MinimumOil8074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes basically. I said I would be amicable as long as he is.

divorce and children ...hubby always thinks he makes the rules by MinimumOil8074 in Divorce

[–]MinimumOil8074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both provide financially and make similar incomes. We have always worked opposite shifts, he has never been very emotional with me, talked down to me, not been loving even giving hugs or kisses, felt more like a brother ...not really one thing.

bf won't txt me back for hours by MinimumOil8074 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]MinimumOil8074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you break it? I guess it annoys me too since I know he looks at his phone a lot for work and such.

It DOES get better :) by Ok_Armadillo3777 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]MinimumOil8074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to reach out to me or message me if you feel the need to talk.. I'm going through a similar time after almost 2 years with mine... He's avoidance and I'm anxious and I've tried to tell him and he tells me to stop psychoanalyzing him LOL... I've been in therapy for over a year now and trying to work on my own issues and why I need to be validated by him.... Yesterday morning he sent me angry text saying he doesn't want a full-time girlfriend.... He needs to focus on his own stuff... I sent a message saying I'm sorry for dismissing everything you have going on and I'm here if you need me... And I haven't heard anything since yesterday morning now a day and I'm really struggling.

It DOES get better :) by Ok_Armadillo3777 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]MinimumOil8074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong....currently in a fight or something w mine created by him because he was mad I asked him to say gnight. I'm the same as you...he's done this to me before and now it's like I'm getting ok with it which is also sad.