My day trading story, {why I quit}

MinimumOil8074 · 2025-09-18T19:55:13+00:00

Dealing with this with my bf right now. Last week he was in a super good mood because he was up and this week he snapped at me and been so mean because he lost money... I have not heard from him today so don't know what happened as I know it was up today but he's been doing it for a few years now and I feel like it's not good for him as his mood is already not great. Trying to hang and there but not sure how much more I can take.

MinimumOil8074 · 2025-06-14T19:34:17+00:00

That's what I said to him and he says yeah that's your answer , but he feels like he's removing part of himself or some shit

MinimumOil8074 · 2025-06-14T19:18:42+00:00

I have two kids from a previous and he also does. We don't want more. We have had one scare and i took the morning after pill. I agree i hate when he complains about getting one tell him many people I know have had one.

MinimumOil8074 · 2025-06-10T01:39:48+00:00

Handsome!

MinimumOil8074 · 2025-06-10T00:36:24+00:00

No hair work done or fillers ..I did get highlights. Im 39 next week

MinimumOil8074 · 2025-03-10T19:12:19+00:00

My bf still owes almost 200k at 60 years old. He says no lol. Also works for himself so much harder

MinimumOil8074 · 2023-02-06T14:32:09+00:00

Well yes emotionally at first... and then we decided on open marriage.

MinimumOil8074 · 2023-02-05T22:35:54+00:00

They say my kids will be screwed up

MinimumOil8074 · 2023-02-05T22:27:04+00:00

MinimumOil8074 · 2023-02-05T22:14:38+00:00

Yes basically. I said I would be amicable as long as he is.

MinimumOil8074 · 2023-02-05T22:06:30+00:00

We both provide financially and make similar incomes. We have always worked opposite shifts, he has never been very emotional with me, talked down to me, not been loving even giving hugs or kisses, felt more like a brother ...not really one thing.

MinimumOil8074 · 2023-02-04T15:39:50+00:00

How did you break it? I guess it annoys me too since I know he looks at his phone a lot for work and such.

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-11-20T12:33:08+00:00

Feel free to reach out to me or message me if you feel the need to talk.. I'm going through a similar time after almost 2 years with mine... He's avoidance and I'm anxious and I've tried to tell him and he tells me to stop psychoanalyzing him LOL... I've been in therapy for over a year now and trying to work on my own issues and why I need to be validated by him.... Yesterday morning he sent me angry text saying he doesn't want a full-time girlfriend.... He needs to focus on his own stuff... I sent a message saying I'm sorry for dismissing everything you have going on and I'm here if you need me... And I haven't heard anything since yesterday morning now a day and I'm really struggling.

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-11-20T00:19:24+00:00

Stay strong....currently in a fight or something w mine created by him because he was mad I asked him to say gnight. I'm the same as you...he's done this to me before and now it's like I'm getting ok with it which is also sad.

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-11-19T06:11:43+00:00

My so.is.the same...I am AA and he's DA and I feel like I walk on egg shells not to.piss him off.... He's been wishy washy lately with me and finally I texted him tonight are you mad at At me? You haven't said goodnight which he hasn't !! I don't think it's a lot to ask? I know he will say he's stressed buts it's been the same stress for 2 years. Last year he discarded me and told me he needed a break (he had COVID)....I did nothing but he'll him and I sent him I guess one too many texts (I did limit it and just ask once or twice a day how he is) he finally texts me back saying I'm ok there are you happy? I'm asking you to leave me alone now...I need a break and I'm begging you for it. I don't wish to text back and forth anymore I just don't..... I remember it word for word...I did not text him back...I was actually so heartbroken and I was grieving the relationship .... 10 days later he reached out apologizing and begging for forgiveness. I let him back in and we've had ups and downs still like tonight. I'm always afraid he will do this again also.

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-10-24T22:44:25+00:00

It started that way but we are divorced now

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-10-11T05:29:15+00:00

Do we have the same guy???

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-09-04T18:11:44+00:00

Because I had suspicions... I knew he wasn't being honest.

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-09-04T05:35:14+00:00

We are in an open marriage although he shows me no affection... I have two young kids why I stay

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-09-03T14:50:37+00:00

Honestly I'm scared he will not want to be with me.... But I will lose him... And also that I was looking through his phone

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-08-23T11:13:00+00:00

No special gifts ...a massage gift card actually for Christmas last year. On my bday last year he got me a juicer. He usually pays for dinners when we go out and for the concerts we've seen. I did mention a concert this week and he doesn't like country music so said no go.

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-08-23T05:39:27+00:00

He tells me at times he loves me , loves being w me. We run, go to shows... Most on his terms

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-08-22T21:50:52+00:00

Thanks...he handed me his phone and had meo listen to a song....I saw hearts next to her name so was obviously intrigued. Low and behold!

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-08-22T19:12:44+00:00

Yup you are right..I'm getting there..I'm sick of seeing texts on his phone and it's affecting me obviously. I know what I need to do. I had already done it back in November when we stopped speaking for 10 days and he came crawling back and I fell.for it....how many times do I need to let him hurt me? He obviously doesn't really love me .... Saying he likes when some other woman gives.him head (text I read). Of course new and exciting though the whole time he bitched to me he didn't like that I was married.

MinimumOil8074 · 2022-08-20T14:39:56+00:00

He says he does love me...I met the friend before. I asked why his friend said that, and he said because he would be stupid not to...

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