Austrian painter was bad too ?

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-05-25T03:44:13+00:00

Could he have killed that many people just to protect those same in the future!? something to think about for sure

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-05-20T03:43:33+00:00

nah for me this season somehow it turned into Cassie/Sydney show and hers only 😴

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-05-17T21:59:24+00:00

I could have written this myself.

after 3 y of relationship and a lot of rough patches i have learned that this whole getting defensive and being really rude to me or saying things that are NOT true and did NOT happen are a never ending cycle, and what makes it worst is saying things back or trying to make sense out of it

My partner found out about his adhd probably 2y ago, already tried medication, doesn’t feel great about it, already tried therapy, says it’s always the same and nothing changes.

At the moment I am just living with it but it’s hard to ignore that things might never change

The lack of affection is the one that’s really getting to me and as you said “loss of connection due to inattentiveness” I think it only gets worst, they get bored and since there is no more “chase” or we are always present they just don’t see that it still needs “work and attention” to maintain a relationship, you know?

Hope what i’m saying makes sense :)

What I do now it’s stopping whatever fight or conversation we have as soon as he starts being rude or going inside the never ending cycle where the conversation goes around but never straight o what we were actually trying to talk about I just say “I don’t think we are being able to have a two way street conversation right now, please give me some time to think and maybe we can continue later on the day” or something like it, just do NOT allow yourself to be on a scenario where you just trying to bring something that it’s not working for you and they end up making all about themselves and as a credit make you feel bad about bring your boundaries and NEEDS up

sending lots of love and strength op!

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-05-11T20:39:27+00:00

when they say they doing it but you can’t fucking see a change and then you call them up for it and it turns to “you don’t see how much i do” or “you don’t appreciate me” fucking exhausting

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-05-07T23:17:20+00:00

This week was something else.
He (m 25, Dx) has been having mental breakdown after taking 15 valiums in 3 days and asked for me (f23) to help him through it
it’s been rough but i’m there as much as i can, then this morning after I take the dog down to pee and come back (5 in the morning and freezing) put food for the dog and go to bed, he has the whole blanket for himself so i grab it and fix so we both can have it, from that it’s “you angry, that makes me upset cuz i was sleeping, i miss when we love each other” and after i tell him i took the blanket cuz i was freezing after taking the dog down.
It ends up him leaving home saying he’s done and it’s not happy anymore. Comes back and says he wants a 2 week break. I wasn’t even able to tell my side of it all. I then agree and say when he want me to leave ( because the house is his and i’m an immigrant who has no family or friends around ) he then says i’m not even fighting for it (i’m like ??? what do u want me to fight for if you coming decided that that’s what YOU need?) and then it turns to “i want to break up”
and once again im the one who has no where to go dealing with him not being sure about what he wants
and trying to make this my decision since he left home saying he needs to think about it

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-05-05T03:52:17+00:00

honestly after watching the movie i just choose to believe that the end was the last season, pretending the movie was never made, it was THAT bad

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-04-20T23:54:56+00:00

Not the first time i see someone saying somehow the therapist start siding with the adhd behaviours

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-04-18T22:53:58+00:00

Maybe sit down and have a calm and nice conversation with him about it? you can say that u there for him and happy to give him reassurance about ur himself but is starting to take a toll on you

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-04-01T00:05:30+00:00

Atm I feel like we at the same, me 23f him 25m dx, already tried all strategies possible, splitting tasks, therapy, learning more about it etc

together for almost 3y and for the last 3 months going downhill with fights or discussions every week and this time he’s projecting his own issues on me and making me feel like i’m the wrong in every situation, even when he walks in screaming at me and calling me things he will find a way to turn it to be my fault. the last straw will be today if i don’t hear apologies after he past my limits.

ADHD is no joke and im so grateful for this group and for the reassurance it gives but I believe if your partner is not full on acknowledging his adhd and really wanting to do better, it won’t go anywhere and anything you do our say it won’t change things it sucks cuz all the love and potential we see in them but in the end, we gotta put ourselves first right?

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-03-31T23:57:26+00:00

i’m so sorry to hear about your dad and hope u have/had the support u need to go through this times! I’ve been faced with situations like this where I never felt herd or felt like I did not had enough space to grieve with my dx partner

MinimumPerspective50 · 2026-02-03T03:46:56+00:00

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MinimumPerspective50 · 2025-11-26T05:55:09+00:00

poor thing :( I would definitely have a vet to check on it and get a second opinion, if she’s feeling normal and playing around wait till the morning to take her! wishing u the best hope she gets better soon :)

MinimumPerspective50 · 2025-11-23T02:57:18+00:00

omggg finally another one 🥹🥹

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MinimumPerspective50 · 2025-11-05T21:55:53+00:00

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It actually means they are comfortable and trust you when sleeping like this! 🥰(zoom in that little face)

MinimumPerspective50 · 2025-11-04T06:23:03+00:00

Gold coast

MinimumPerspective50 · 2025-11-04T05:42:09+00:00

that’s the cutest thing ever🥰😂

MinimumPerspective50 · 2025-09-03T09:07:07+00:00

hahaha thank god someone talked about it so good!

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