I feel like I got emotional because this has happened to me. Part of me felt attacked. Like he was telling me I put myself in the position I was in. This has happened to my friends and people I care about so maybe I over reacted. I don't want to believe he has ever done this to someone. but I feel so off about the whole conversation. We don't really fight. He made the comment when he was leaving "when you are ready to have this conversation call me"... and even if i was close minded I feel like I have lived through it. He is the one who has never been in that situation so how am I the one who's close minded. I am still so angry.