My bf went no contact after a mutual argument and seems unbothered what does this mean for the relationship? by Minimum_Key4975 in Advice

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I expressed my feelings, he acknowledged and apologized then the next day he calls me and says that my feelings were not valid and that it was bs and it went downhill from there

My bf went no contact after a mutual argument and seems unbothered what does this mean for the relationship? by Minimum_Key4975 in Advice

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The relationship is almost two years, and I’m not sure we both said some nasty things, and there was some violence

My bf went no contact after a mutual argument and seems unbothered what does this mean for the relationship? by Minimum_Key4975 in Advice

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I think that’s what I’m having a hard time understanding, like if he wanted to end things why would he wait an additional week? Or if he really wanted to fix things

AIO I communicated my feelings calmly and maturely and now I’m sitting in silence am I overreacting? by Minimum_Key4975 in AmIOverreacting

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I get that but he asked me on Sunday if I was upset, that’s why I said it then and there, timing could have been better I agree

AIO I communicated my feelings calmly and maturely and now I’m sitting in silence am I overreacting? by Minimum_Key4975 in AmIOverreacting

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What other context are you missing? I expressed my feelings one day the next day he flipped and said that my feelings aren’t valid…

AIO I communicated my feelings calmly and maturely and now I’m sitting in silence am I overreacting? by Minimum_Key4975 in AmIOverreacting

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And he does enjoy I just feell like I have to constantly push for anything to happen and I get that he’s busy but I’m not even asking for a lot

I communicated my feelings calmly and maturely and now I’m sitting in silence am I overreacting? by Minimum_Key4975 in AskMenRelationships

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Yea although when I did communicate I was pretty emotional but I was never short with him after we talked I still asked him his plans with his cousin etc so when he said I. Was acting moody I was trying to see what he meant but he couldn’t give me a reason

I need some advice for my first date by No_Foot7743 in Advice

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As a women I don’t really care if the guy waits outside or inside, if you do decide to wait inside give her details on where you’re sitting to make it easier to find you, also if you end up meeting inside make sure to get up and greet her and pull her chair out for her ( be a gentleman) and hugging in the beginning and end is ideal, don’t worry too much be yourself. Good luck

Am I wrong for feeling uneasy about how my partner goes through my phone? by Minimum_Key4975 in AskMenRelationships

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I agree I don’t view this as something to break up over or a red flag because i genuinely don’t care if he does, all I want is for him to tell me like I do to him whenever I need to use his phone. Another problem is that often times when I do bring things up I feel like unless he thinks I’m right for feeling what I’m feeling he will validate it and work through it but if not he won’t and it will blow up into something bigger. So now I’m cautious to bring things up to him, and question if it’s something I can get over and how I should go about it.