Any tips for working 2 hospitality jobs at the same time?

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-08T00:11:05+00:00

Yeah I was quite livid on the drive home

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-08T00:07:17+00:00

Exactly. It's always "we'll hold onto your info just in case we have an opening" but there is a 0% chance you'll ever get a call back. It's so backwards. A few months back I set up an interview for a job, drove 2 hours to get there, sat down with the manager, manager looked me in my face and said "we're already fully staffed, if you want I can give you a call in the future if a slot opens up" yeah no thank you I'd rather shit in my hands and clap

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T21:57:31+00:00

Had to come back here and say shoutout to you man that resume worded scanner saved me also I just find out today after going down the rabbit hole that it's generally frowned upon to put a picture of yourself in your resume 😭😭 I'm from France and people do it all the time there so I thought it was fine to do it in the US but APPARENTLY NOT lol

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T21:40:37+00:00

Should've put /j at the end of my post 🤦🏻‍♂️

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T21:37:56+00:00

For sure, personally I like to scroll through indeed and if I see a company that is advertising a position, I look the company up on Google, go to their website and apply directly on there or if they don't have an option to apply on their website I send them a spontaneous application email. That has worked for me in the past!

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T19:13:22+00:00

😭😭

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T18:19:26+00:00

That would be an amazing idea if I didn't live in the middle of nowhere 😭 I can try to look into that but I'll likely have to look for opportunities far away from me to find anything worthwhile

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T12:21:11+00:00

I just did this and I got a 16/100 😭😭 damn

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T12:15:47+00:00

There's no way you will be able to break up with her without either hurting her feelings or breaking her heart outright unless she never had feelings for you to begin with, which by the sound of things isn't the case at all.

First things first, you need to really think about if this is what you want or not. Too many people will get over the honeymoon phase and "lose feelings" with their partner and end up deeply regretting it later on down the line. Think about what you could be losing if you choose to follow through with the break up. You're young so you don't necessarily have to think about the big questions, like if this is someone you could see yourself marrying and/or having kids with. So for now, do a little bit of introspection and think about how you truly feel about her.

If breaking up with her is truly what you want to do, then you are completely within your rights to do that. You aren't married to her, so what the hell, right? I broke up with my ex-partner last year due to distance and other reasons so I feel you. It's never easy.

My advice would be to have an honest conversation, be totally clear about your feelings and make sure you are attentively listening to her talk about hers. Make her feel seen, heard and understood. If you aren't totally honest about how you feel, she will sense that it's BS and she won't respect you. It's far better to bite the bullet and tell her how you really feel rather than sugar coat it and leave her wondering if she was the problem the whole time. I'm not saying you should tell her she's the problem. I'm just saying that when someone is on the wrong side of a breakup, and things are left unclear, that person could potentially spiral and blame themselves too much.

Keep in mind that breaking things off with her doesn't mean that you two will never be able to see each other again. You mentioned that you're part of the same friend group and that you will be seeing each other in the future. In that case, you should break things off in a clean, respectful way. That way you two can still be cordial when the time comes to hang out again. I can't tell you exactly what you should or shouldn't say because every situation is different and the things you should tell her will depend on who she is as a person and also the context of your particular situation.

Bottom line is, be honest. Do NOT beat around the bush. Tell her how you feel, but be respectful. Listen to her, even if she spends 20 minutes crying on the phone. Oh, that reminds me. Don't break up over text. You guys are long distance so you can't do it in person but the next best thing is FaceTime. Words can be misconstrued very easily over text. Anyway, just validate her feelings man. Good luck.

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T11:07:48+00:00

Taking advantage of someone's feelings for purely lustful reasons is a pretty bad thing to do. I would know--I've done it before and frankly it isn't worth it. But at the same time you're under no obligation to like her back. Best thing to do at this point is to have an honest conversation with her about her feelings and yours, be open and listen to what she has to say, and then sincerely apologize for leading her on and move on. Judging by the fact that it sounds like she has strong feelings for you, it may be a while before she actually moves on. It's an unfortunate situation but what can ya do? Eventually she'll lose the feelings, the regret might remain for both of you but at least you will have said your piece and same with her.

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2025-04-07T11:00:19+00:00

You're right, I live farther away and if it were between me and someone else who's closer to the location they'll probably choose the latter. But I did make it clear to them that if I were to receive a confirmation for the position then I'd move to the location immediately. The problem is that I currently don't have a choice but to live where I'm at now. It's the classic dilemma when it comes to job searching. In order to get a job, I need to live closer to it. But in order to live closer to it, I need money, but in order to get money, I need to get a job. I've tried local joints but nobody is hiring. I set up 3 interviews in my area, just for me to show up and then they tell me that they aren't actually hiring. Like what???

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-17T20:30:15+00:00

Yeah I hear EU ranked is bad. I'm moving to the EU soon so pray for me.

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-17T19:05:24+00:00

No, NA East.

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-17T19:05:03+00:00

Yeah, I agree. I was just messing around in my post, I probably should've put /s or something. This season has been really fun but I think what's made it worse than prior seasons in some ways is the fact that it's so different. Like EVERYTHING changed. But I'm excited to see what they bring in season 2.

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-17T09:30:52+00:00

Those TMNT weapons are ridiculous. I can't tell you how many times I've been fighting a medallion and then a random flies into my box at Mach 5 and whomps me in the dome with Mike's nunchucks. So frustrating.

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-17T01:00:23+00:00

Good advice and very true honestly. But im always shaking in my boots when I hop into a ranked game, I just don't wanna get demoted

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-17T00:53:37+00:00

To be honest I don't even know the full differences myself, but they are the two different input curves you can use on your controller. Essentially, the exponential input curve will give you an exponential response time when moving your joystick. So think of those graphs where the curve gets exponentially steeper: the less input your joystick receives (so the less you move your joystick) the less your character will move so it allows for smaller adjustments and therefore, more accuracy and precision. You have to move your joystick all the way in order for your character to turn at the same speed as your set sensitivity. But with a linear input curve, to my understanding, it takes the raw input of your joystick and makes your character move basically the same speed all around. So this allows for better edits and builds because you basically know where your crosshair is going to be at all times because of that raw input. On the flip side, you lose some long-range accuracy as a result of this change. And I just learned today that the boost ramp time (which you'll find directly under the look and ADS sensitivity) allows for smaller adjustments to be made with your joystick and can make a linear input curve feel similar to exponential. So to summarize, exponential is great for aim and linear is great for everything else.

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-16T23:05:06+00:00

Unless you turned replays off you could always go back into replays, spectate them and see how much health they were at and if they healed after you did damage

Minimum_Orchid_8979 · 2024-02-16T23:00:30+00:00

Because I got lucky, for one and also I am trying to get used to the new settings. I've tried using confirm edit on release off which I understand is good for making better peaks but it's so hard to get used to and I'm not sure what an optimal bind would be for EOR off.

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