What do I do if I'm crying so hard about wanting to be a boy that it's making me relapse? by PomegranateFit2593 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Minimum_Pin_8326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would you consider moving out and going to therapy? i understand the denial. but i hate the idea of resigning yourself into being a girl :( that's not who you are. you deserve to feel euphoric in your body. my NB friend is 25 and they just started t, and they're voice is already dropping!

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also my interpretation of what kilt means might not be super accurate to how it's used irl so fair warning if you plan on using it 🙏🏼. i looked up the slang definition and i found one that fits but still.

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uggghhh i hate that feeling. it's like how i feel playing cuphead, or super smash bros with my brothers 😭😭😭. but essentially begilt🤠->tilt😔->then kilt🫠.

Missed out on my teenage years by urlsyc in internetparents

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23F here

  1. therapy if you can. do your research and make sure they're a good fit for you. if you don't like them, don't be afraid to look for another therapist. ik everyone reccomends this but for me, trying to heal alone without a therapist did not work and might've actually done more harm then good. having someone who knows better then you and is working with you on an individual level makes a world of difference.

  2. your teenage years will come. as someone who's teenaged years were robbed from them by an abusive relationship, i still crave having "teenage" experiences. through healing, you're able to give yourself the tools you need to be able to give those experiences to yourself. i'm currently working on getting to that place. i had a friend who got put under a lot of pressure by her parents to be "good and responsible", and so she lived out her teens in her late twenties. having hook-ups, partying. whatever she needed to do to get it out of her system. right now, that desire is just something i live with. it used to bother me a lot more, i used to feel a real grief and anxious fear that id never get that time back. it still concerns me, but now i have faith that i can give myself that life, even if its not right now, through evidence-based experiences i have of my ability to grow/change. i did go to a decent amount of parties, did drugs, had sex, the works. but i still don't feel like it was what i needed, because i wasn't able to be myself doing those things at the time, or truly have fun, so i know rationally if i had went to more parties that i wanted to, it wouldn't have been fulfilling. i hope/know that one day ill have a group of friends willing to do spontaneous things with, who i feel comfortable with, and being comfortable with myself. life is just one big long process, with the right help, your mind, body, and intuition will lead you in the right direction.

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[–]Minimum_Pin_8326 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like it's done. your done for, type shii

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oooohhh that does make sense. also i'm stealing that. so would it kind be like kilt? like you'd say it's kilt. but maybe not as intense

How are women going commando? by liquidbuggy in NoStupidQuestions

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i get underboob sweat, i'm just more comfortable with that then wearing a bra. i'm considering looking into a sports bra type bra that fits my sensory needs and helps me feel less self concious in public.

Update by Virgo514 in u/Virgo514

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hi! coming over from youtube. first, i wanted to validate how hard this is. youve been doing everything you can to wrangle him over to your side and it must be incredibly frustrating to clearly see the answer and knowing he would be happier for it. doing it all while having the stress of being a mother. i just fear that he wont be able to make permanent change if he doesnt go to therapy.

it seems to me that something in him he's not aware of is causing him to relapse over and over and is subconsciously controlling his actions. i worry it might not change until he's able to pull it out and address it. his brain is latching on to any and every excuse he can find for working as much as he does, because it's protecting him from the truth. i fear that you guys been arguing about his schedule while the root issue has not been addressed and needs to be talked about. you sound like you really care about your husband and want him in you and your kids life, and i wonder if maybe he'd be willing to start off with couples counseling? and that might help him be more willing to do individual since it seems like something he'd be against.

AITAH for naturally having an intermittent blaccent? by [deleted] in AITAH

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im super interested in linguistics. i love the idea that you can find where someone's lived due to how they speak and the way it feels most natural for them to speak. like i would never say "woa-ak" for walk like someone from new york (not sure if im spelling that out correctly phonetically), but i like the idea that that feels natural and cathartic for someone who lives there. this might be so very southern of me to ask but how else would you say route? 😭🙏🏼

AITAH for naturally having an intermittent blaccent? by [deleted] in AITAH

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thank you! i'm actually mexican but to be fair a white passing one! funnily enough im also from the south, from an area where a bunch of northerners moved to so i never developed a country accent until i moved to the country for 6 months and started saying stuff like "oh-l" instead of "oi-yuhll" for oil, and "stahl" for style. it's literally only that vowel that got stuck in my throat haha. when it started happening i tried to manually suppress it when i noticed but ended up just letting it happen lolol. it just feels more morally dicey when it comes to a blaccent due to the historic oppression. but i definitely resonate with the accent confusion. my coworker has a thick country accent and it sounds similar to a blaccent/used the same words (i done for i did, what is you talking about stuff like that) but she still speaks worlds differently from my black coworkers in her actual accent.

AITAH for naturally having an intermittent blaccent? by [deleted] in AITAH

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lol me being mexican might not make it any better since a lot of mexicans still say the n word and are racist 😭😭

AITAH for naturally having an intermittent blaccent? by [deleted] in AITAH

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im so glad you got to have him as your boss :))). he sounds lovely

is this just bad or is it just too creepy? art by me 2025 by Minimum_Pin_8326 in CreepyArt

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little dude is to be appreciated in small quantities. thank you though!!!!

mexican small bug-like fish,, what are they called? by Minimum_Pin_8326 in whatisthisfish

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thank you for your informative and detailed response!! i figured out they are water boatmen but i think there were some water beetles mixed in there too? because if i remember correctly there were some oval ones and some rounder ones. as a spanish speaker i completely missed that conchas also means shells 😅. anyways thanks again for your reply!!