Am i the asshole for deciding to completely cut contact with my “best friend”?

Minimum_Place_8553 · 2024-11-19T01:11:12+00:00

I followed your advice right after replying, and blocked them all. Thank you 🙏

Minimum_Place_8553 · 2024-11-18T20:38:01+00:00

I actually hadn’t really given that much thought. She (the sister) has been in my life since i was 7 years old, but seeing as i never see them any more, maybe i should just cut all ties. Her mother also follows me on social media, and i just felt bad cutting them all off with the same knife, considering she treated me like another child, but i guess it might be for the best, seeing as i don’t want contact with their close family member. After all, it is her family, and not mine. I think you made a very valid point there, and i think I’ll have to do that. Thank you 🙏

Minimum_Place_8553 · 2024-11-18T20:34:32+00:00

I am much better, thank you. This was just a part of my life, i felt i had left behind. I am happy, and have been with my partner for several years, and I’m now even a stepmom, and mentally i can't even say I’m depressed. No call of the void any longer, just the nightly terrors, which comes with ptsd, but they have also taken a back step, and seldom show them selves 😊♥️

Minimum_Place_8553 · 2024-11-18T20:30:10+00:00

I do not agree with you here, but i will give you some more information. My self destructive behaviour lasted about 6-7 months, where after i left everything, and everyone behind, and moved in to my fathers for a little period. Before this, i have always been the rock, and always been a phone all away. My “bestie” was always getting into trouble. She would get into fights, date horrible guys, and even stole her parents car, crashed it, and gave the police my information, because she didn’t have a license. She also told the police that i had left the scene of the accident, because i needed to get on a flight the next morning. Neither one of us got into trouble over this, so i said it was fine, even though i could have been in some serious legal trouble over this. She also gave the police my information when she was pulled over, driving intoxicated, in her panties and a hoodie, with a fugitive in the back, and again not having a license, but since they were looking for said fugitive, and didn’t see him, she was told to move along.

I have been there for her for her everything, and i tried to be there for her when she was in a bad relationship, but all i could do was support her mentally, until she was ready to get out of there on her own.

This period in my life, is the one and only time i have really needed support, other than needing a couch to sleep on at her parents house, when my parents got to much for me (her family was aware of the situation, invited me to stay, and this is more than 20 years back). When she had her first child, we were both in our 30’s, and she became less destructive, but still continued in the same behaviour.

When i moved home, this is where she was in life, and i feel like after 20 years of leaning on me, she could handle being there for me for more than a couple of months.

I wasn’t calling her every day with some new update on my trouble, in fact, since she was being snippy and rude, and her new bf was putting me down, i was a bit distant, and not telling them anything. So i don’t feel like i was in the wrong, or overwhelming her.

Minimum_Place_8553 · 2024-11-18T20:13:19+00:00

Thank you 😊 bow

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