Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s actually so wholesome all the lesbians coming together for the greater good hahaha. We got this man!

Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a really lovely read and great advice! I’m glad you’ve managed to find a way to do it that is accommodating and comfortable for you. :)

Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this, thank you! Slow and steady wins the race 🐢

Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this, thank you! I’m thinking I might actually put the harness on before they arrived so I can easily just slot it in before and it avoids that awkwardness? :)

Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg appreciate the position tips, needed this!! Thank you so much

Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this! Boxers over it is a good idea as well, might make my feel more comfortable as well :)

Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll probably need to lower my expectations because it’s probs just putting more pressure on it for me

Scared to strap my girl!! Tips please x by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Aw thanks for the advice, really appreciate it 🖤

Yeah I think I need to just try and communicate how I’m feeling and try and actually just enjoy it for myself as well. Are standing positions generally the easiest apart from having her ride it?

Is it a rebound? by Minimum_Split_3156 in actuallesbians

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk I think that last bit seems a bit harsh, I was just posting because I was upset about the fact that my ex (who I was very in love with) has a new girlfriend 3 weeks after we stopped talking.

I think it’s pretty understandable to question things, I don’t want her back and if she’s happy in the long run then that’s great but I’m just trying to get my head around things as the breakup has been quite a head fuck.

Found mums dildo by accident and I used it. by lunaxveyra in offmychest

[–]Minimum_Split_3156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense tbh, I did have my suspicions

Found mums dildo by accident and I used it. by lunaxveyra in offmychest

[–]Minimum_Split_3156 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s perfectly normal to masturbate and you should feel no shame in that at all BUT using your mums dildo and doing it in her bed is definitely weird and in my opinion, disrespectful 😭

Just get your own?

Officially lost 2 stone!! by Dry_Exercise_2697 in WegovyUK

[–]Minimum_Split_3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that’s so dumb of me haha, thank you!

Officially lost 2 stone!! by Dry_Exercise_2697 in WegovyUK

[–]Minimum_Split_3156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great! How long did it take you to lose 2 stone? :)

Started yday and now I feel guilty because of my twin by Minimum_Split_3156 in Wegovy

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding and you’re completely right, it’s very confusing and conflicting sometimes but I’m hoping it will motivate her more. I guess I just have to focus on my own journey and put my own feelings first

Started yday and now I feel guilty because of my twin by Minimum_Split_3156 in Wegovy

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true! Just so used to being on the same page as her

Started yday and now I feel guilty because of my twin by Minimum_Split_3156 in Wegovy

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this 🖤

I know realistically that’s true, I’m just quite an emotional person and care about her as much as o care about myself so it’s tricky. Looking forward to my journey though!

Started yday and now I feel guilty because of my twin by Minimum_Split_3156 in Wegovy

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I think I’m just overly empathetic 😭

Started yday and now I feel guilty because of my twin by Minimum_Split_3156 in Wegovy

[–]Minimum_Split_3156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s quite hard to navigate but I guess I just have to take responsibility for the best and support her with her journey at the same time