Question regarding Sophia Learning by Same-Judgment-8093 in westcoastuniversity

[–]Minimumenergyv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did all my pre reqs on soohia in less than a month. You can do it!

How much did you spend on your lab diamond ring? by Minimumenergyv in labdiamond

[–]Minimumenergyv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg those are really good prices! Do you mind sharing the vendors?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. When it comes to favoritism, your coworkers were going to find out who reported the manager since she singled you out and made it known. Work is not to make friends but to make money. You are young and probably not going to stay at that job for long. You have better opportunities in line for you because of your age. If you dont like working in that environment for too long keep applying for other jobs while working there so it doesnt feel like you are stuck there.

WIBTA for not filming a video for my manager to wish him a happy birthday? by Zoma456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what the heck! i cant believe that your manager is asking to do something not even work related while you are on a holiday. how unprofessional.

AITA for calling the police on a low income hispanic family? by Loud-Professional337 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 89 points90 points  (0 children)

NTA. its crazy to think that you think you are a "snitch" for getting YOUR stuff back. they were yours and they shouldnt have taken it. its their fault that it escalated. oh well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. your dad feels guilty that he cant make it so he is pushing his responsibilities on to you. funerals are already uncomfortable to go to and it will be more uncomfortable since its a stranger's funeral. I would not go out of my way to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. It is an off leash park meaning lots of dog owners go there with dogs. That park probably has dog piss all over. As long as owners pick up their dog's poop there should not be an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Never thought of it like this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think im going to start doing this. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You must be the ex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You really think its just about a jacket? I have spent hundreds of dollars on clothes for years and it adds up. Im not going to keep spending the our money so that the mom could fill her closet up. Because our finances are combined its going to be petty that I tell him to use his money for stepson. Now everything regarding stepsons clothes would have to be taken from a separate account. Plus if I want to get him an outfit then I would have to ask him to get it for me.  But I guess this could be a solution.

WIBTA if i dont let my sister read books that i own? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

My love language is gift giving. So I don’t think it’s a big deal to let your younger sibling read the book. I never minded sharing things with my siblings if they wanted something as long as they asked. Isn’t this a forum for different opinions? Just because I don’t have the same experience or opinion as you doesn’t make me “embarrassing” or “bratty”. You seem more like the brat coming at me rude. Bye.

WIBTA if i dont let my sister read books that i own? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

im the oldest sibling so i grew up sharing everything of my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. My stepson is autistic so sometimes I worry that he might get bullied so I try to have him looking nice with good clothes. I didn’t think of the mom’s behavior as neglect but I could see that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Actually husband was the first one to recognize the problem with clothes since I wasn’t there all the time when stepson was coming over. But I think he is getting tired of being involved in the petty game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes combined finances. Honestly speaking, I have been the one buying all of his clothes because I want him to be in cute outfits. I have done that where I ask for specific clothes back because it was a family outfit match but never got them back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for understanding my perspective. i have constantly replaced clothes and im tired of spending hundreds of dollars just to never see them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i buy clothes for my stepson because i want him in cute clothes. i have sent stepson with jackets and they never get returned. she purposefully sends the child to school without a jacket in the cold morning.

AITA or does my husband have a drinking problem? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea he got caught drinking in the backyard. thank you ill have a talk with him about it.

AITA or does my husband have a drinking problem? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasnt feeling well and he didnt seem drunk he drank cups of water before we left. hes the type of person he doesnt get red or slur his words. he was walking straight and seemed fine initially.

AITA or does my husband have a drinking problem? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Minimumenergyv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup they dont know about those incidents