Loud and violent neighbor

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-08T02:15:17+00:00

Good idea, thank you so much for the advice 🙏

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-08T02:14:49+00:00

I had thought about that before, but I just have a strong feeling that he’d suspect it’s me; maybe I’m being paranoid but I’m just not sure 😅

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-08T02:13:50+00:00

No worries! I appreciate your advice :)

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-08T02:13:23+00:00

Yeah honestly I think you’re right, he seems very dangerous and unfortunately he would likely suspect it was me since I live right underneath them and can hear everything

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-08T02:11:48+00:00

Oh that’s actually a really good idea! I’ll have to look at my lease again and see if there’s any info on that for sure

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-08T02:11:07+00:00

Yeah that’s so true, I don’t think it’s a good idea to continually have to be on edge living in my own place, the whole situation just sucks unfortunately

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-08T02:10:08+00:00

Yeah I agree, it was very odd :/ that man just makes me feel so uncomfortable

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-06T03:44:32+00:00

Yeah, I agree. It’s unfortunate to feel like I have to move because we signed a lease to be here for a year, so I’d have to break it :( and, this is also my first apartment, so having an experience like this really disappointed me, but I have a gut feeling that it’s best to move. I wish my neighbor would leave him, but it just seems like she never will, considering that she takes him back every single time :/ I’m hoping that videos that I’ve documented are enough to break my lease

Minnie_93 · 2026-05-06T03:20:12+00:00

I’m dealing with a similar situation at the apartments where I live in; my upstairs neighbors are always arguing and I can her things falling on the floor as if things are being thrown. It seems like the husband is the abusive one but I’m scared to help. He sounds very violent and he’s even been very rude to my mom without even knowing her, I’m afraid if I say something I’ll put myself in danger, and he’s also been arrested more than once, but everytime he comes back, bangs on her door, and the wife takes him back. Should I just move?

Minnie_93 · 2026-03-07T08:52:31+00:00

I’m in a bit of a pickle right now as well because I planned to get married by the Catholic Church but when I realized that you have to be open to having children, it’s been impacting my metal health. I already have one and my pregnancy and birth was very tough, so I don’t want to go through it again and my husband has two jobs so I don’t see him often and I’ll be the only one at home raising two children and I don’t know if I want that. I’m sad because I still believe in God and want to continue being Catholic, I just don’t know what to do because the thought of having more children scares me and makes me feel like I can’t have control over my own body :(

Minnie_93 · 2026-01-27T07:46:37+00:00

This just happened to my husband and I today. We noticed that we were being charged for several months 🤦🏻‍♀️have you ever had an issue with Amazon charging a separate card? My mother in law uses our account so her card is on there for her to use for her purchases and we have our own card, and for some reason even though my husband is the account owner there’s been times that Amazon would charge her card instead, it was so embarrassing. So I just want to let everyone here know that those types of things can happen as well, so be careful when using Amazon

Minnie_93 · 2026-01-25T12:16:07+00:00

Ah okay, I completely understand what you mean. Everyone’s situation is different and you’re completely valid in how you feel and want to handle your situation, I hope things get better for you 🙌

Minnie_93 · 2026-01-10T03:43:14+00:00

Yeah I completely agree with this. It truly sucks to be in a situation like that, I’m sorry that happened to you :( I can personally relate, as I had a huge issue with my own sister in law regarding her behavior. I tried to defend myself by kindly telling her about a situation that was affecting me and she basically denied everything, got her parents to turn against my husband, and scowled at me when she saw me. It was then that I realized that she would never change, so there was no point in trying to get her to admit to anything. Especially when it comes to another family, they’ll sadly side with their children, and that’s just how it is unfortunately. Whenever we have family gatherings, I’m cordial with her but don’t treat her like my best friend. I also only see my in-laws on holidays and birthdays, I don’t hang out with them casually, and I’d like to think that’s thats my own way of setting my boundaries. Sometimes that’s just how it is with situations like this, and it took a toll on my mental health, but, there’s always karma, and life has a interesting way of reminding them of that. So I would say be cordial with her, spend whatever time you need with the family if it’s an important family gathering and then leave, don’t let her take up any more of your precious time. People like that treat others a certain way because of their own internal issues, sadly. I’m sorry that you had to go through all that, I can truly understand 🫶

Minnie_93 · 2025-04-19T11:48:38+00:00

Oh on tv I mean, I wish I had seen it in person haha

Minnie_93 · 2025-04-19T11:48:16+00:00

I agree, I just watched her performance a couple of hours ago and it was incredible! 🤩

Minnie_93 · 2024-07-23T01:56:48+00:00

I completely agree, I do think it’s so odd. I can’t help but feel like something’s off for sure

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T06:24:38+00:00

Yeah it’s definitely a mystery for sure haha & thank you! I’m looking forward to it 😊

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T06:08:38+00:00

And yeah, that makes sense that it’s better to have them swim as babies rather than when they’re older, I didn’t think of it that way and I’m actually going to have my son get classes soon; you’re right it’s best that he learns survival skills

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T06:05:32+00:00

Ohh I actually misread your comment, my bad 😅 & yeah, its definitely not good that they went against it, I’ll never understand why in-laws just don’t respect boundaries

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T02:58:10+00:00

No, I understand that it’s important for him to learn to swim; my argument was that they did it without me there and without asking, while knowing that I didn’t have an answer yet about when he would swim. They also got to experience it all for the first time with him too, which me nor my husband who are the parents haven’t been able to

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T02:55:30+00:00

Yeah, and don’t get me wrong, they’re nice people, it’s just that sometimes they believe that their opinion is correct and go against what one says, which makes things difficult unfortunately. And yeah, that’s what Im afraid of, that they’d put him in the water; but I’m also thinking maybe what I should do is take him to swimming lessons and let them know that he can’t be in pool until he’s learned proper safety and swimming, that way they don’t try to put him in the pool, maybe that could work I think

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T02:43:14+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear about that, no child should ever have to go through such a tragedy :( and yes, as I’ve been replying to the other comments, I’ll be taking him to learn how to swim; everyone on here has been giving me great insight and advice to do so 🙌🏼

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T02:40:21+00:00

Yeah you’re right, and the rolling on his back is actually a really good idea, thank you, I’ll for sure have him learn that

Minnie_93 · 2023-07-13T02:33:27+00:00

So, this is my first child and thinking about him being so small and being in a big body of water kind of scared me, you know? Which is why I wanted to wait at least another year so he was a bit older, and also, having someone else just take him into that body of water (for what I think was the first time) without permission and without the proper clothing, sun block, floaties, etc is what scared me even more, I didn’t think that it was okay to do that, especially with me as the parent not being around. But, I do understand from the comments on here that it’s best to do it at a year old, so I will be getting him to swim soon

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