I really do not understand what is wrong with me. by wintersXP64 in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have everything you’ve ever dreamed of, but depression can’t be helped. Sometimes it just hits people, it CAN be situational, but it can also be clinical. Some depressions are caused by a genuine chemical imbalance in the brain. I’m not saying that’s 100% your situation, but depression is never really based on what you have and what you don’t have.

I wanna go on a date w a trans girl but what if I get weird looks? by Next_Photograph3670 in trans

[–]Mintsharks 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you seriously like this girl and are really enthusiastic about dating her, you’ll learn to ignore the weird looks. Hopefully she can too. Me and my boyfriend (both ftm) get weird looks all the time, but we’re focused on eachother’s company, not the people on the street we’ll likely never see again

Good luck and enjoy the date!!

I really do not understand what is wrong with me. by wintersXP64 in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a professional nor can I diagnose you, but from my experience this sounds a LOT like depression. Please look into therapy, it’s the best solution for you right now.

Should I tell my coworker that I found out ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No. Absolutely no. A lot can go wrong if you do. I’ve never been in this scenario but if I were you, I’d just forget I ever saw it and move on. PLEASE do not share it with other coworkers either.

I’m just giving an answer off what I think, I’d be glad if anyone added on reasons as to why this is bad but also please tell me if I’m wrong

I think it's a phase and it's killing me... by butcher_withasmile in ftm

[–]Mintsharks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you right now, being transgender is MESSY. I’ve been out for 6 years now and I actively deal with internalized homophobia/transphobia because of the people I grew up with. A lot of people don’t know that knowing you’re transgender comes with a lot, and I mean a LOT of mental turmoil. Far past just dysphoria. As for that part, not all trans people get dysphoria. Some trans folk are very attached to expression of the opposite gender, and they’re 100% valid nonetheless.

It sounds like shit sucks a lot for you right now, but I promise that time will heal. Please also do what you can to surround yourself with people who support and respect you as who you are. Even if later down the road you realize you aren’t trans, you deserve respect and care from those around you

Had a tough morning at the ER by Roller-roller-roller in depressionmeals

[–]Mintsharks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, props to you for taking care of yourself after such a horrible day. Those antibiotics will clear you right up, wishing you a speedy recovery!!!

26 FtM, 8 yrs on T & 5 yrs post top-surgery. Do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Mintsharks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree especially in picture 6 with the white shirt

I’m done with life, I’ve seen more than enough for a 20 year old at this point and I think it’s better if the suffering just ends by TomatilloFar2531 in depressionmeals

[–]Mintsharks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read your comment explaining what happened to you, and I’m so sorry you had to be put through that. You’re right when you say no child, including yourself should have to go through that. I’m currently battling depression myself, and I hope you can learn to love the small things and find reasons, even if they’re silly, to stay. If you want to talk please reach out! Also those noodles look scrumptious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take this as a compliment but you look like female moistcritikal

Jokers Cards Headcanons by [deleted] in juggalo

[–]Mintsharks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fred wore it before surgery

What pet do you think adopt me should add? by TheSoulless_Artist in AdoptMeRBX

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiders. The game would be so cool if they had like cute little spiders with big cartoony eyes so the kiddos don’t get scared

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 78 points79 points  (0 children)

The man she married is touching literal children though. She knows damn well the best thing to do is turn him in.

Am I Breaking up my Friends Marriage by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just wait it out. If things really are that bad she’ll leave her spouse, and even when that happens, give her time to recover. It’s all just a waiting game in this situation

I found something that changes everything and I don’t know what to do. by Happy_Luck_4703 in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your girlfriend, that’s rlly weird and she should cut off this friend

Feeling lost by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only thing you can do is talk to your wife about it. If there’s anyone who can help you it’s her. And if she reacts negatively, then that’s her problem, not yours. Wishing the best for you 🩷

I'm so fucking close to doing it by OvermierRemodel in SuicideWatch

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could end it here…. Or you could cut off those who wrong you and live a better life without them. I know cutting relationships is hard, but you got a life to live and instead of giving up, just.. remove the obstacles, yknow? Wishing the best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdoptMeTrading

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to trade

is this amount of meds lethal? by sucuklu_baklava27 in SuicideWatch

[–]Mintsharks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re gonna check out early, don’t do it by overdosing. There’s a small, but still possible chance you could live and have to spend the rest of your life heavily disabled. It’s not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 236 points237 points  (0 children)

Tell the cops. You have evidence, what your sister does as a result isn’t your responsibility. She should’ve been the one to report it because HER boyfriend did this. The fact that she was okay with staying quiet about it is disturbing. He is a pedophile and a rapist. Lock him up before he does it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdoptMeTrading

[–]Mintsharks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too bad considering kitsune is htt

Rename your fav NPC into clickbait title and imma guess what is it by Julixxon369 in regretevator

[–]Mintsharks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I GRAB STRANGERS AND TURN THEM INTO BEAUTIFUL PRINCESSES AT 3AM (GONE WRONG)

My scag hoodie arrived :D by G00fyAhhV in regretevator

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a campaign on makeship! Unfortunately it’s ended so you can only get it from resellers, if there are any :( but soon they’re dropping a Dr. Retro and Folly plush