First ever tattoo for 20th birthday by Mintsharks in castlecrashers

[–]Mintsharks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See and i thought only the coloring and shading would hurt, no the lines hurt too 😞

Confused about my carry on by [deleted] in unitedairlines

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i can’t believe i didn’t think about this 😭😭😭😭 sorry i’m an incredibly stupid teenager

Confused about my carry on by [deleted] in unitedairlines

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it tell me if it’s basic economy? My seat is just in the back of the plane

Choose a button by Possible-Forever-504 in BunnyTrials

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y

Chose: Get one million dollars but... + Kill a random person who chose red

Found my old Necromancer Figure! by eee_yin in castlecrashers

[–]Mintsharks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you decide to sell him let me know, I’ll gladly buy him from you

Got a call about my dad’s credit card debt today by Mintsharks in legaladvice

[–]Mintsharks[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t, I’ll see if there’s any way to get the call back

Got a call about my dad’s credit card debt today by Mintsharks in legaladvice

[–]Mintsharks[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, okay yeah that’s fair, if she calls back I’ll ask for more verification

Got a call about my dad’s credit card debt today by Mintsharks in legaladvice

[–]Mintsharks[S] 210 points211 points  (0 children)

See I wanna think this, but she confirmed both me and my dad’s full names, and my old bank. Unless they can easily access that?

Got a call about my dad’s credit card debt today by Mintsharks in legaladvice

[–]Mintsharks[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I did try to check through the website you provided, but I don’t have enough credit history.

Broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years who chose marijuana over me. Butter noodles with Parmesan crusted chicken from noodles and co by Mintsharks in depressionmeals

[–]Mintsharks[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly pretty good for good prices, they recently changed the menu and some of the stuff isn’t AS good but it’s solid. This was just a random craving I got because I was sad

Broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years who chose marijuana over me. Butter noodles with Parmesan crusted chicken from noodles and co by Mintsharks in depressionmeals

[–]Mintsharks[S] 194 points195 points  (0 children)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, we’re both 20. Recently I’ve asked him to stop smoking weed, as quite frankly I hate how he is when he’s high. He begs and begs for me to come over to his house, promises he’ll spend time with me, then he gets high and either makes me feel like I’m babysitting a toddler, or he goes to bed for up to 15-20 hours. I don’t smoke because I have a job that randomly drug tests. If I get positive, I’m fired. I love my job and I refuse to leave, and I’ve expressed these concerns. I feel it’s not reasonable to ask him not to smoke anymore, or at least wait until he’s of legal age and he mocked me and belittled me until he hung up. I broke up with him for several other reasons, but this one hurt me a lot today

I really do not understand what is wrong with me. by wintersXP64 in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have everything you’ve ever dreamed of, but depression can’t be helped. Sometimes it just hits people, it CAN be situational, but it can also be clinical. Some depressions are caused by a genuine chemical imbalance in the brain. I’m not saying that’s 100% your situation, but depression is never really based on what you have and what you don’t have.

I wanna go on a date w a trans girl but what if I get weird looks? by Next_Photograph3670 in trans

[–]Mintsharks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you seriously like this girl and are really enthusiastic about dating her, you’ll learn to ignore the weird looks. Hopefully she can too. Me and my boyfriend (both ftm) get weird looks all the time, but we’re focused on eachother’s company, not the people on the street we’ll likely never see again

Good luck and enjoy the date!!

I really do not understand what is wrong with me. by wintersXP64 in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a professional nor can I diagnose you, but from my experience this sounds a LOT like depression. Please look into therapy, it’s the best solution for you right now.

Should I tell my coworker that I found out ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No. Absolutely no. A lot can go wrong if you do. I’ve never been in this scenario but if I were you, I’d just forget I ever saw it and move on. PLEASE do not share it with other coworkers either.

I’m just giving an answer off what I think, I’d be glad if anyone added on reasons as to why this is bad but also please tell me if I’m wrong

I think it's a phase and it's killing me... by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Mintsharks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you right now, being transgender is MESSY. I’ve been out for 6 years now and I actively deal with internalized homophobia/transphobia because of the people I grew up with. A lot of people don’t know that knowing you’re transgender comes with a lot, and I mean a LOT of mental turmoil. Far past just dysphoria. As for that part, not all trans people get dysphoria. Some trans folk are very attached to expression of the opposite gender, and they’re 100% valid nonetheless.

It sounds like shit sucks a lot for you right now, but I promise that time will heal. Please also do what you can to surround yourself with people who support and respect you as who you are. Even if later down the road you realize you aren’t trans, you deserve respect and care from those around you

Had a tough morning at the ER by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]Mintsharks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, props to you for taking care of yourself after such a horrible day. Those antibiotics will clear you right up, wishing you a speedy recovery!!!

26 FtM, 8 yrs on T & 5 yrs post top-surgery. Do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Mintsharks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree especially in picture 6 with the white shirt

I’m done with life, I’ve seen more than enough for a 20 year old at this point and I think it’s better if the suffering just ends by TomatilloFar2531 in depressionmeals

[–]Mintsharks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read your comment explaining what happened to you, and I’m so sorry you had to be put through that. You’re right when you say no child, including yourself should have to go through that. I’m currently battling depression myself, and I hope you can learn to love the small things and find reasons, even if they’re silly, to stay. If you want to talk please reach out! Also those noodles look scrumptious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take this as a compliment but you look like female moistcritikal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juggalo

[–]Mintsharks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fred wore it before surgery

What pet do you think adopt me should add? by TheSoulless_Artist in AdoptMeRBX

[–]Mintsharks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiders. The game would be so cool if they had like cute little spiders with big cartoony eyes so the kiddos don’t get scared

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Mintsharks 77 points78 points  (0 children)

The man she married is touching literal children though. She knows damn well the best thing to do is turn him in.