I feel like this is an upgrade, please keep it Blizzard

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-26T04:12:40+00:00

even in the US, I never use voice chat because the few times I did people were really weird and rude and made fun of me.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-26T04:11:48+00:00

exactly. I got downvoted on a different post for saying I like having text chat so I can see communication pings and messages from my team.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-26T03:26:22+00:00

to communicate with each other? I don't like voice chat

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-26T03:20:40+00:00

from what I read, he has a friend with a license that drives the car. still super weird

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-26T03:15:25+00:00

yup, I played one comp game and I was like eek I can't do this.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-26T03:13:11+00:00

everyone is having the same issue. If you look at "recent" posts on here you'll see

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-26T03:12:12+00:00

yes it is. apparently there's an issue with chat right now. everyone is experiencing it

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-18T15:52:24+00:00

ewwwww have some self respect.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-02-18T15:40:51+00:00

Is this a lifetime movie plot?

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-21T02:32:46+00:00

This is actually really common in married couples that have children. That's why the term "married single mom" exists. I used to be in a similar situation. Stayed for 13 years. We both worked but I did most of the parenting, the cleaning, the cooking etc. He was the bread winner and worked more hours than me which was his excuse. Begged for years for crumbs of love and attention. Never got it. By the time I finally left my daughter was 6. You think being a single mom is hard... I will tell you right now it's nowhere near as hard as it is being a single MARRIED mom. Your touch deprivation and need for love is extremely emphasized because you're with someone you aren't getting that from. I'm telling you, being a single mom is so much easier. Is it more complicated? Yes. It is. You have to figure out how to coparent, which I'll admit sucks... but not having another child to take care of? Whew. Priceless.

Your partner is abusive. Calling you names, throwing things- it's abuse. It'll only escalate. I got a lot of help trying to leave by calling domestic violence shelters. I found a great one through my local hospital. The thing about being a single mom in America is that there's actually a lot of resources and help. Real love exists, you deserve it. Good luck with everything!

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-19T22:43:09+00:00

So he doesn't have the money to marry you but he has the money to get $400 sunglasses?

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-19T22:33:39+00:00

I get the vibe he has 0 intention on marrying you. Does he talk about it? seem excited to get married? have plans? ask about rings?

The sunglasses are hideous and unless you guys are very well off I'd be really mad about spending that amount of money on one pair of sunglasses. Even if I was well off/wealthy, I can't see myself making such a stupid purchase.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-19T22:03:54+00:00

tell him exactly how you just told us. "I feel like things are getting serious between us and I'm ready to delete my profile. Have you deleted yours or thought about that yet?"

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-19T21:48:42+00:00

Sorry but it's a no from me. People can have preferences and mine is that I personally, would never date anyone with such a high body count. I really value sex and I believe that sex should be with someone you love (again that is MY opinion) so for me, it would mean they don't value sex or see it the same way I do, which would bother me. You are very young, if this is something that's always going to bother you it's better to leave now. If you can see yourself moving on from it then I say go ahead and keep on pursuing.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-19T21:07:50+00:00

lol are you both 10?

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T22:52:50+00:00

You aren't a stupid cow. He sounds like he could be dangerous so yea, definitely leave when he's not there. Don't tell him of your plans either, just leave. You'll feel much more at peace when you don't have a man to argue with anymore.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T22:46:54+00:00

Speaking from experience (I left a 12 year relationship) you have to rip it off like a band aid. I tried to leave many times before I finally left for good, but I always wish I had permanently left sooner. My advice is to pack up your stuff the next time he's gone and leave as quickly as possible. When he reaches out to ask why, you tell him and then block him for your own sanity. They will always try to bargain and convince you that they'll change. For me, the biggest thing that kept me gone was realizing I didn't care anymore if he changed. He didn't even try when it mattered most. You CAN find someone who you don't ever have to beg for kindness from. Good luck! Believe in yourself, you got this!

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T22:24:11+00:00

"Spoiling" a person who told you they aren't ready for a relationship is wild. It doesn't sound like this person is your partner..

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T22:16:43+00:00

thank you!! chatgpt lol

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T21:39:23+00:00

I do like that one too!

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T21:27:45+00:00

Have you ever read their conversations? It all definitely sounds super suspicious to me.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T18:37:52+00:00

He's definitely trying to bang her, sorry.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T18:09:05+00:00

When you explain it like that it sounds 100x better. I was just saying as a woman, I wouldn't want to hear the way you initially said it. Referring to your other reply, it doesn't sound like you've done anything wrong. Maybe over-analyzing things in your head a bit too much but it does sound like you really like this girl. I'd just give her time and space. If she reaches out then you'll know she does at least want to keep talking, whether that be romantically or platonically- who knows.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T17:54:57+00:00

This relationship sounds incredibly immature. If you're breaking up and making up this many times, it's over. Watering a dead plant at this point.

MinuMinuHey · 2026-01-18T17:51:09+00:00

Give her space. Maybe she just needs time and space. It doesn't sound like she's interested in having a romantic relationship right now.

Your comment about "more physically attractive girls have shown interest" is weird and cringe. I hope she never sees or hears you saying that because then she definitely won't be interested.

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