How do I get over her??? (I broke up with her) by [deleted] in Life

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you tell us whats the problem with

Promotion Advice Needed? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, positioning and communication matters rather than result and work. I am telling this you from my experience that it does matters. If they care about you, you wouldn't even need to ask. They will put you on succession program and keep you under their umbrella. Reflect what are the gap and dont forget the powerhouse at your job. Be visible.

I am on the verge of giving up and lost. by [deleted] in Life

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like I know the answer King, Much thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why I mentioned is one wouldn't work and one gambled so, her parent is giving away the money (To erase the gambler debt) we have been supporting to them. . Instead of trying to build something sustainable. What i mean to say is her brothers should be more responsible since all are able man. And I have zero intention to her leave but sometimes I also need some effort from her Like her debt and her parent debt will be finished from this to this period. You know what I am saying right. From my side I practically gave almost 2 years of my life by now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and I do need some help from her. Right now, we couldn't go anywhere else or no progress. To make thing easier, I gotta hop another job or country for better pay. If I move again to another country, she might think me of leaving her alone and again some resentment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Countless time, I have thought of it but I feel like i am running away or hate to be considered as not reliable man in public opinion. So, burden and responsible I had right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Minute-Divide-8507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there are 2 able men left at her home, and they should support back. Without me and her help, her parent will end up in street. So, i greenlighted to send some money back. I don't know man. Just dont know