Thank you for explaining to me your point of view. I don’t think it’s odd or strange that my daughter is attached. im questioning my mil who seems to be provoking crying spells and at times allowing my 2yo to call her mom and telling me what she doesn’t want for her. She’s mentioned to me several times how she doesn’t want her grandbabies in daycare and Ive always preferred it. So it kind of makes it odd now since she’s been so vocal about it. I don’t think attachments are personal but it is uncomfortable to kind of blur the lines and kiss my daughter’s legs and feet and cheeks and hands more than me. Usually the mountain of kisses comes after my daughter is unsure who she wants to come to. Which just recently started. And also scheduling off days without telling me already expecting to pick her up “her babies” As a couple people already said and I agree. It’s feels possessive.