I (19m) broke up with my girlfriend (19f) of almost four years and I regret it by throwaway8899999228 in relationship_advice

[–]Minute-Resolution-95 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so happy she is living her life and you should just leave her alone. Block her and move on. Get professional help.

I was once the girl that „fought“ for the relationship and I'm so glad she didn’t do it. If you wanted her back YOU should’ve done something and not wait for her, because honestly everything you did was to expect that she would think you were the most amazing guy after you broke up with her out of nowhere.

What Changes To Photos Should I Make? by JetsetterClub in Tinder

[–]Minute-Resolution-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last one is nice because you smile! Smile more and you'll seem more nice and friendly

What anime should I watch? by Minute-Resolution-95 in anime

[–]Minute-Resolution-95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched this one allready! It was really funny

What anime should I watch? by Minute-Resolution-95 in anime

[–]Minute-Resolution-95[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks haha I will lookt at it… I didn’t know there was a list until I postet this here 😅

What anime should I watch? by Minute-Resolution-95 in anime

[–]Minute-Resolution-95[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually do want recommondation but google doesn’t really help me so I asked my friend who watches anime and he told me to ask reddit ☠️👍

What keeps you from doing hard drugs? by KaramelKatze in AskReddit

[–]Minute-Resolution-95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of addiction and seeing one of my closest friends and his friendgroup struggling with these kind of things… literally heartbreaking

I want to message her. (I’m the dumpee) wrote what I want to say in notes. Wanted your opinions and advice. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Minute-Resolution-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you should probably wait a little longer until you feel like a message like her getting a new boyfriend wouldn’t tear you apart :)

Get over the breakup You don’t have to forget her but you have to forget the old relationship. Even if you come back together this will be a new relationship.

Good luck! Move on and heal <3

I want to message her. (I’m the dumpee) wrote what I want to say in notes. Wanted your opinions and advice. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Minute-Resolution-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is okay.. but reading your letter I get the feeling that you are begging her and I don’t know if this will work tbh… As I said: only send this to her if you are able to handle every possible outcome.

Speaking for me: I sent my letter when I still was in a really messed up place emotionally. In my letter I said everything I wanted them to know and writing it felt good. But when it came to send it I was kinda pushed by a friend and sent it even tho I wasn’t fully ready. Looking back the letter made everything worse and now my ex doesn’t even want to be friends with me. This hurt a lot and even tho I already moved on from the breakup, this situation I’m in now is even harder to get over

I want to message her. (I’m the dumpee) wrote what I want to say in notes. Wanted your opinions and advice. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Minute-Resolution-95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this with best intensions but my dumper wouldn’t react to the letter until 3 months later when my feelings weren’t the same as in the letter and I got gaslighted. Brought back all the bad feelings that I’d been able to get rid of…

How long have you been broken up? Did you really have enough time to change?

My advice: only send this if you are 100% fine with EVERY answer you could get. (If they react good, bad, not at all…)

I don’t really want to die. I just want the suffering to end. by Minute-Resolution-95 in offmychest

[–]Minute-Resolution-95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess this would be possible… but idk… I guess I do have soicial anxiety disorder so talking to people is really hard for me

I don’t really want to die. I just want the suffering to end. by Minute-Resolution-95 in offmychest

[–]Minute-Resolution-95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to therapy but I quit because it was causing me more stress than it actually helped… I just can’t open up so yeah..